Its very difficult how old is he? I would suggest that you are far more worried about the state he is living in than he is.
As long as he is mentally capable of deciding what he wants there is not a lot you can do. It would be easier and more comfortable for you if he was somewhere safe and being looked after, but if he would hate that and it would make him very miserable he is better where he is in familiar surroundings.
Do not feel guilty, do what you can and keep offering help but in the end it is his decision. You are not responsible for the outcome of his decisions and if anything does happen you have to remember that it was what he wanted and he has taken those chances. I hope it does work out safely though.
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