Its been so amazing reading all your advise and comments. I could hardly believe that it went on so much. I blamed it on everything from the fact that his Mum n Dad were not together to it somehow being my fault, as it happens its just kind of normal!!!! I just HATE seeing him cry from the bottom of his heart like that. I always say to him Mummy has really missed you to try aand get him to want to go. My husband has also said to me when he sees me getting upset that by the time they get to the end of the road it will all be forgotten. I have to say that I cried while reading HildaW's advise, it was such good advise and so kindly and delicately put it made me calm down about it all and to sometimes just let things happen and realise that they are not as serious as first thought..and its quite strange to me that people that I don't even know are willing and wanting to help me and it has made such a difference to me and I am very grateful to everyone that commented Thank you very much x I feel a bit braver now and thats got to be a good thing for everyone.
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