As a single person [I do have a grandniece who is a cutey pie ]I don't like the word Gransnet as feel it is not all encompassing & we should be respected for our individauality as people not to focus on our age often causing the most concern. I suppose this is nit picking but I still feel mentally I am in my 30s ??!! Silver surfer is more fun.
What annoys me is that when I was a teenager they had only just been invented so we didn't make the most of it! Also when I started work, the bosses were all in their late 50s or older. When I got to that age, the bosses were in their 40s and I was old enough to retire.
I don't think it does focus on age so much, as we know we are a variety of ages, we just have this one thing in common, and it is a big thing , we are all Grandparents. Age has got very little to do with it.
Why does 'Gransnet' focus on age? Grans can be in their 40s or 90s so to assume we are all 'silver' is not a good idea. I'm not silver so wouldn't qualify.
I think people mean different things when they say 'I still feel in my 20s/30s/40s. Some of which are silly/negative and some of which are good/positive. Without explanation it is not always possible to tell which. I most certainly don't feel as old as many of my own age and think my attitude is much younger than some of half my age!
Silver surfers are much, much older than we are! They also have tight perms or a cottage loaf hair-do, loads of wrinkles, lisle stockings (also with wrinkles) shawls, an apron and, most probably, a rocking chair where they knit bootees!