The friends we had for dinner Sat, old ones of OH and I asked him to write to our daughter before Xmas, due to the length of time he knows OH Worth a try. He agreed and promised to let us see copy. Nothing happened, then i got so fed up with it that got Gra to ring him Sat as did not want to spoil evening discussing it.
Just got abrupt email from him saying him and Gra had agreed no need for us to say and he has told our daughter we not seen letter so does not want to break his word.
Really I don`t count then, very uspet as have been looking for this since before Xmas.
Feel very let down, trust my OH and also feel my feelings have not been considered.