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JessM Mon 28-Oct-13 19:28:36

Hope he has not upset you. Not worth bothering with that's for sure. May have thought he was being funny I suppose - a lot of men have very inept ideas of humour - gauche teenagers 'til the day they die.

Mishap Mon 28-Oct-13 19:27:06

What must there be in his brain!? A very stupid remark indeed.

Nonu Mon 28-Oct-13 19:23:01

Sorry he cannot be very nice , otherwise he would not have made such an insensitive remark. If it was I would totally blank him from now on in !!

petallus Mon 28-Oct-13 19:17:26

What a shallow man. Take no notice. They're not all like him.

ninathenana Mon 28-Oct-13 19:16:26

Of course being loved,cherished and cared for are important. I didn't mean to offend.

Grummy Mon 28-Oct-13 19:01:38

Well romping to me isn't the be all and end all, there are so many other factors which count, that's why his comment hit me a bit hard

ninathenana Mon 28-Oct-13 18:42:06

One of my married friends has spinal problems her husband has arthritic hips and knees. They are in their 50's. They manage very well, so she tells me grin
I sincerely hope you find the guy who cares enough to over come any problems. He is out there.

JessM Mon 28-Oct-13 18:40:38

tosser.

Grummy Mon 28-Oct-13 18:38:17

Okay, thanks for your comments!

Ana Mon 28-Oct-13 18:26:22

In that case he's just plain inconsiderate and/or rude!

Grummy Mon 28-Oct-13 18:24:34

He knows I wasn't hitting on him, he is an old acquaintance and is happily partnered

absent Mon 28-Oct-13 18:21:04

Perhaps he thought you were hitting on him.

ffinnochio Mon 28-Oct-13 18:19:49

Grummy Pay the silly old bugger no mind!

Grummy Mon 28-Oct-13 18:17:34

I have just been told by a male acquaintance the same age as I am (55), when I said hopefully by some miracle I may still find someone special or they may find me, that nobody will want me because I have osteoporosis and cannot romp around! He said I'm very nice otherwise! Am I being unreasonable to feel as mad as a snake or do you think it's the end of the road for me?