My husband (aka The Wonderful Man) was away for the whole of last week helping our son with jobs around his flat (jobs in this house are still waiting......). He arrived home on Saturday evening with just enough time to shower and change before we went out to dinner with friends; so no time to chat. The following morning (Sunday) he left for the office to catch up on his admin before I was even awake. We then met up in the late afternoon at a cafe with his parents and our daughter and her family; so no time to talk together. On to our church meeting (where dear friends had prepared him a meal) and then home by nine o'clock, where husband shot off to pack his bag in order to leave for work early the next morning. He left the house before I woke and won't be home now until Thursday night. I can cope with all the above and only feel slightly niggly - but HE'S TAKEN MY COMPUTER MOUSE WITH HIM!!!!!!! And that is just too much!!! AIBU? What niggles you?
Sell all his stuff and treat yourself to a self indulgent Christmas. Or give it all away to a homeless shelter. Your choice, whatever makes you feel better.
Go out and buy yourself the most expensive mouse you can find, diamond encrusted preferably - and charge it to him.
Quite understand how you feel. I had a DH with a work life like your DH until he finally retired completely last year, and yes, it is the small things like that, the straw that breaks the camels back.
Mind you, when it stops and you have him home all day every day .................
Spider Solitaire hypnotises me. Last computer got it deleted eventually; and it will come to that again. I was on Minecraft for a long while, I build stuff and don't fight monsters, but I play that less now.