As some of you know, we have a 'situation' which has resulted in DD3 staying here with her two tinies.
I so agree with Mishap's comment about choosing our children's partners. DDs 1 and 2 chose well and have fine partners and fathers but never in a hundred years would we have chosen 'the idiot' for DD3.
DS2's wife was a disaster but luckily they had no children. He is with a lovely woman now and has two stepchildren to whom he is a good father.
On the other hand, we loved DD1's wife and thought she was wonderful - she turned out to be made of straw and abandoned him when things got tough.
So, it's probably best that they make their own mistakes!
for anyone who is suffering like this at the moment!!
Anger management!!! Help needed.