All of my family do online banking, no-one thinks it's cheeky because it's how we do all our shopping. So today I shall be sending my daughter money for my GD's birthday, she will buy something on my behalf and wrap it! Very civilised, I think. I just send a card separately, safe in the knowledge that my daughter will buy something they actually like. With no postage or cheque payments involved.
Soop's kitchen for kindly folk.
Innocent question has left me depressed