Rant about the Idiot again - sorry!!

Sorry for everyone who have to deal with idiot partners of their children (or in their own relationships for that matter). Don't you sometimes just wish you could do away with all the game playing - "the process" and cut to the chase? It would make life so much easier.

Sorry to steal your thread kitty but a final update on our families idiot. HE'S GONE ! he moved out, handed over keys yesterday, taking white goods, sofa etc. He even took half the pots, pans and cutlery. DD says she doesn't care at least he won't be near her . He's gone to visit his parents in Germany until Sunday taking the youngest with him. He couldn't take the other one as passport has expired.
As for not working, he starts new job on Tuesday.

glam It's kitty's idiot that is away for 10 weeks not nina's

nina what happened to the idiot giving up his job,that scenario didn't last long did it if he is going to work away for 10 weeks.
Kiora your DDs mistakes sound very much like my DDs she does tend to go for the needy of the male species then realises her mistake too late.

Make a note of that too, kittlester, with dates ! He really is digging himself a great big hole.

Bagsy my idiot first. he has just surpassed himself by cancelling DD's phone because she sent him an upsetting text! This is the phone on all her cards and the website for the new business! It's no wonder she is depressed!

Oooh, we'll all be going to hell in a handcart!

Perhaps we should all chant Pheonix's spell curse at the same time aimed at whichever idiot is currently annoying us - how about 3.00 p.m. this afternoon

I've just put it privately on fb for my dd and she loves it!

phoenix can I please use this on my daughters two exes (yes she made the same mistake twice) but just to give you all a bit of hope. After 18+ years she's seems to have seen sense and is managing very well on her own with her two boys. Fingers crossed there isn't another looser waiting in the wings.

cursor curser for hire.

I was thinking that Mishap!

*Phoenix" - I see a niche in the market for your new business!!!

Wish I'd had that spell when my idiot left me! Mind you, he too already had piles.

I thought my family idiot was a gonner last weekend but he grovelled, and so it's back to the waiting game.
The relationship is doomed, so I can wait, and my dd has just started a great new job, which means she travels around and stays away a lot!

phoenix I shall be learning your ditty to chant under my breath

DD's ex lives abroad which is where she met him, damned long haul air travel. He never remembers DGS's birthday or even Christmas. BUT he has recently had a tattoo done of him on his arm. It is a very bad tattoo in which DGS looks rather like a clown. I rather hope it gives him extreme blood poisoning. Come on Phoenix, do your best!

Please may I borrow your spell as a gift for DD2's idiot ex. He so deserves it!
Same story -lazy beggar hands them to his mother to be fed OR of course McD's. Takes a full day for behaviour to return to reasonable after visiting. Nasty remarks planted so that they in all innocence will pass them on! The saving grace is that his baleful influenced is curtailed and DD2 is well on the road to recovery.

LOL thanks phoenix I have forwarded that to DD

Good one phoenix
A plague of carbuncles upon him kitty.

Phoenix

Double hubble, toil and trouble,
Make his botty boil and bubble

Make his piles and scrotum itch
Give his eye a nasty twitch

Make his skin erupt and ooze
Make him allergic to all booze

Give him herpes, give him sores
Whenever he goes out of doors

Wish all foul things fall from above,
For hurting you and those you love.

Sorry, I'm clean out of eye of newt.

Me too phoenix please.
You have such a way with words

kitty about that contract you suggested...........

phoenix, may call on your services

They are still babies - MacDonald's ?

Just as well he is away for a while, jolly good thing I would say. And he really needs to be told not to bad-mouth his children's mother, they are very vulnerable and will take it all in as they are not old enough to be discerning. What about his mother, or is she just as bad? Do you speak to her, could you ask her to have a word with her prat of a son and ask him not to say nasty things to the children about their mother, whatever he might be thinking. From what you have said, he really is an immature, well words fail me

I hope your daughter is keeping a detailed note of all the times he renegs on his promises or makes a cod of his time with the children.