Both DS and wife are anxious parents. DS is worst as he worries about both wife and child. When DGD, aged 6, made her first solo visit to us I was provided with a long list of and don'ts, by DS, not DDiL, and they constantly rang to see if she was OK. To such an extent that on the third day of her visit even DGD turned to me and said: ' I wish Mummy and Daddy would stop phoning all the time it is SO boring'.
However, as the first visit went so well and DGD keeps asking if she can come and stay again (she is). However DS has decided that they will now collect her a day earlier and than planned!
I console myself with the knowledge that DS is, and always has been, a compulsive worrier. At the age of 7, asked to write something about himself at school he wrote: 'I am aged 7. I have blonde hair and blue eyes and I worry a lot'.