I agree with you harrigran - people were not as demonstrative at that time as later generations. I remember always getting a kiss at bedtime and when anyone was going out etc and we were never allowed to part on bad terms - I can remember my mother saying to me how bad I would feel if that parting turned out to be last time I saw the person - something I still think of now. I find it easy enough not to bear grudges and strangely when someone is less than nice to me for whatever reason I forget that incident quite quickly whereas a kind deed remains much more to the surface.
Unfortunately my sister and I do not have a good relationship and indeed I have not seen her or had any communication from her for about ten years. From time to time I still send a postcard or similar with a neutral message asking if she is OK and despite all the problems she gave me for most of our lives I would still welcome her should she contact me. That is just me I know and I feel so fortunate with my family and step family - any of whom I could go to should I be in need of assistance - as my sister never married I worry that she does not have that.
DH always says that listening to how I described our mother and things our parents did and the way my sister spoke about them you would think we were talking about different people. Each to their own I suppose.
Should women have equal pay and opportunities?
To think that London, or anywhere else for that matter, does not belong to any one demographic