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I was so disappointed

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NanKate Tue 30-Dec-14 19:48:34

I set up the Gordon Buchanan wild life programme. (Snow wolf family and me) and settled down to watch his trip to the Canadian Arctic. It was totally spoilt for me by his blasphemy. I could never watch it with my grandchildren.

To set the record straight I am not stuffy or highly religious (though I do believe) but hearing him say twice 'Christ, Jesus wept' it was so unnecessary but I suspect that if I complained to the BBC they would say it was after the watershed.

If anyone had made a comment about Mohammed the BBC would have been apologising profusely.

thatbags Fri 02-Jan-15 11:10:47

nelliem, I was not making what you call a side swipe at a religion when I mentioned that in some countries people are murdered for what some of the people there tink blasphemous. I was stating a matter of fact. People also get jailed in some countries for being "blasphemous". I think it is important to acknowledge that we are a darn sight luckier to live in a country where people can blaspheme or use expletives that others object to without violence being resorted to. Free speech is very important. Part of the price we pay for free speech is that sometimes we will hear things we don't particularly like, that we choose to take offence at. Free speech protects everyone. I don't like a lot of things other people say but I defend their right to say them. That is what this is about.

Jane10 Fri 02-Jan-15 10:53:39

Sounds like it should have been bleeped out. Think I must have an autobleep function in my head as I didn't hear anything surprising!

vampirequeen Fri 02-Jan-15 10:49:06

But was it mockery? The man had just come face to a face with a wolf. Surely it was simply an expression of shock.

Mockery is totally different. I don't this man or programme set out to make fun of Christianity. Would you have preferred it if the phrase had been bleeped out so we could just assume he'd understandably used an expletive.

Lilygran Fri 02-Jan-15 10:33:59

Crossed posts, jingl wink

Lilygran Fri 02-Jan-15 10:32:50

I don't think the posters who mentioned Islam were having a go at Islam. I think they were pointing out that mockery of some religions and their adherents is now apparently acceptable. But most media organisations hesitate to mock Islam. And the Beeb regularly shows comedians and others who ridicule belief in God and particularly, Christianity, but it doesn't show much (any?) mockery of Islam. I think this is a good thing. I just wish they would apply it to all faiths. No-one has addressed my point about sexism, racism and homophobia. These areas are where we now show respect, thank goodness. But why stop being respectful of other sensitive areas?

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 02-Jan-15 10:29:41

It was you saying how predictable the thread was that made me think you found it boring Gerente. As I said previously on the thread, the point about tolerance by the Beeb for Christian blasphemy as opposed to their utter fear of offending anything Islam, is a very valid point. And one that should be raised more often.

TerriBull Fri 02-Jan-15 10:28:42

Whilst I agree that the UK did have a history of religious persecution and bigotry, we were not alone in that, certainly Spain and France carried out their fair share, particularly Spain where the Inquisition was conceived, but it's irrelevant to the discussion really, most places in the world behaved appallingly in different times.

We can't change the past we can only concern ourselves with the here and now. Whilst we have moved on many places in the world are morphing back into the very dark times we left centuries ago.

Islam is mentioned in this context as many of us know it's treated as a sacred cow so I suppose the point NanKate was originally making, is that the BBC particularly, does not give practicing Christians the reverence and respect that it does for the adherents of Islam, purely on the basis that we all now have to be very careful not to antagonise the fundamentalists followers of that religion.

Nelliemoser Fri 02-Jan-15 09:48:27

The mention of Islam is totally irrelevant to this discussion and appears to me as an unedifying side swipe at another religion.

Never forget our UKs dreadful history of religious persecution and bigotry.

Its bigotry and misinterpretation of scriptures that cause wars and hatred not a religion itself.

Gerente Fri 02-Jan-15 09:23:20

Being surprised is not the same as being bored.
Whether that expletive should have been allowed or not, is a matter of opinion. But the assertion that a similar expletive involving another religion would have been something for which the beeb would apologise, should concern us all.
An accusation that our national broadcaster is biased one way or another needs to be taken seriously. Impartiality lies (or should) at the heart of public service.
So, yes I think this is important and (IMO) we ought to make a lot of it.

vampirequeen Fri 02-Jan-15 09:22:38

I use the oath...Jesus, Mary and Joseph. Is that blasphemy or simply a list of names?

Would you have preferred it if the presenter had said, "F**king hell!" when he came face to face with a wolf?

It's hardly the situation when you would say, "Golly gosh," is it? Unless you're part of the Famous Five. I'm sure in that situation Julian would have strangled the wolf with his bare hands, skinned it and made a lovely coat for Anne who would have simpered about how wonderful he was whilst she cleaned up the blood and guts.

thatbags Fri 02-Jan-15 08:55:25

There is nothing intrinsically wrong with criticising a religion. There is something wrong when members of a religion respond to criticisms of their religion with violence. Calling justified criticism "bashing" is not helpful.

The above can be applied to all religions and all philosphical ideas and all scientific ideas.

Jesus's name was not "taken in vain". Just by the way, Jesus is a very common name in Spanish speaking countries. Are the people who call their baby boys Jesus "taking the name in vain". This is turning into a load of tosh.

Stop taking offence, people!

Elegran Fri 02-Jan-15 04:23:12

I seem to remember someone on the thread saying that what is at stake here is NOT what would happen if it had been a different religion. That is a red herring - whether or not he should have said "Jesus wept" should stand alone as a question, regardless of whether he could or could not have involved Mohammed.

It would be too easy to be drawn off the point and into mere Islam-bashing.

NotTooOld Thu 01-Jan-15 23:54:41

Gerente - do you think the BBC would have been in trouble had Mohammed's name been taken in vain rather than that of Jesus? I think they might have been. You would think a presenter might have a better command of English than to use phrases which are obviously going to upset some people although I don't object to the use of eg 'Jesus wept' per se.

Ana Thu 01-Jan-15 23:33:55

Did you want a lot to be made of it, Gerente? hmm

jinglbellsfrocks Thu 01-Jan-15 23:25:53

Sorry if we're boring you Gerente.

Gerente Thu 01-Jan-15 22:14:55

This discussion has been pretty predictable and par for the course, but I'm surprised that there has been so little made of the assertion by the OP. that if any comment had been made about Mahommed the beeb would have apologised.

annodomini Thu 01-Jan-15 20:24:31

'Jesus wept' is well known to be the shortest verse in the Bible. (John 11, 35). So is it not simply a quotation by the speaker, rather than blasphemy?

absent Thu 01-Jan-15 18:42:27

Jane10 Hurt feelings may have played a role in causing wars but, if so, it would seem to be a very minor one. Greed, a desire for more power, suppression of minorities, revenge for past harm and many other factors have always played a much bigger role.

soontobe Would this particular instance be taking the Lord's name in vain or was it, in fact, taken with respect? Surely this will be known only to the Lord and Mr Buchanan.

vampirequeen Thu 01-Jan-15 18:33:46

Erm...isn't FFS offensive to some people or doesn't it matter as long as it doesn't insult someone's god.

[wooden spoon] grin

Nonu Thu 01-Jan-15 18:14:14

That is SOONS belief , I say good on her.

Surprise , surprise it maybe the belief of many others also.

Who maybe don"t wish to come forward because of the mockery!!

tchhmm

soontobe Thu 01-Jan-15 18:00:09

People can google.
That is all I am saying on this thread.

jinglbellsfrocks Thu 01-Jan-15 17:55:38

Perhaps it is soontobe's* belief that it is a serious matter to God. That's ok.

jinglbellsfrocks Thu 01-Jan-15 17:54:12

Oh FFS!

Where the hell is this thread going now? hmm

annodomini Thu 01-Jan-15 17:44:40

When did she tell you that, soontobe?

soontobe Thu 01-Jan-15 17:03:31

Taking the Lords name in vain is a serious matter to God.