Objection to a non muslim being buried alongside a muslim

If it is unconsecrated to Christian burial and not specifically a Muslim burial site, then it is open to any non-Christian. If the family of the Muslim(s) buried there don't like it, it is up to them to move their deceased.

Gordon Bennet!

I also found this very strange but I would have to know more before I decided right or wrong.On the face of it it would seem once more that pc views are slanted in favour of certain minorities although gypsies are also a minority.

I've looked for the latest on this, and today the Ministry of Justice, the only organisation with the power to grant an exhumation licence, said there was “no way” he would be moved.

And a leading Muslim has made a statement.

" Dr Sheik Howjat Ramzy, Director of the Oxford Islamic Information Centre and an adviser to the Muslim Council of BritMain, said: "There is nothing in the Koran which says that you have to be buried separately, there are some traditions that in the time of the Prophet it was good to be separated.

Graves] are separated in some Muslim countries but Islamic jurisprudence is different from one country to another and in this country it is allowed."

Sanity has prevailed.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/religion/11406710/Grave-of-Catholic-Shadrack-Smith-will-not-be-exhumed-family-told-in-row-over-Muslim-burial-plot-next-door.html

There are strict laws in the UK about digging up and removing a legally buried body. There have to be acceptable reasons – the police have grounds (sorry for the pun) to suspect murder, for example – sand even then, there are legal protocols. That the family of a dead Muslim doesn't like the dead incumbent next door is not an acceptable legal reason. This sounds like a very jumbled Chinese whisper kind of journalism.

Good!

We are all equal in the eyes of God.

If the Muslim family object then they must take proceedings to move their relative somewhere else.

This is sadly the sort of thing which is not helping at all. They cannot object if it is a public burial ground- unless part of the cemetary has been officially designated for Muslim burial. What a shame- Good on the Islamic Foundation to find 'against' them and to the council for sticking to their guns. And I am NOT anti-islam.

absent

This is not as case of jumbled Chinese whispered journalism!

This has been an ongoing situation that has only just been spoke of in the national press.

Elegran

I was very pleased to read your post as I think those who have spoken have spoken wisely. Our Council on the other hand has totally made the issue worse by trying to please one family over the other and offended the family of the other.They have made themselves look pretty silly even giving this idea a remote thought.It has certainly caused many discussions over how this is being handled by local residents as you can imagine.

The local paper is on sale tomorrow so I will hope they have had time to get the response from the council in time for it's print run.

They are dead! They won't care!

It is a nonsense for any group of people to object to another group of people using a burial site! I understand in churchyards that it might be reserved for members of the church but in council cemeteries you need to 'love thy neighbour'!!

Well, in parts of Catholic Switzerland (the Valais region in the Alps, for instance) the village cemetaries are only for practising CAtholics. A friend of mine actually became a CAtholic in her 60s- so that she could be buried there (later, both OK still !) - together, when the time comes. Really don't get it myself- but hey ho, her choice.

Sorry POGS. I thought it must be a misguided journalist because it is so difficult to believe that a local council would think that it had any right to move a legally buried body in the first place. Just goes to show how detached from reality councils can become.

My feeling is that if this was a major issue for the family, they should have secured a plot in a Muslim cemetery.

In my view it would be totally unacceptable to even consider removing a body because of this objection - and, as absent says, I doubt it would be legal anyway.

Hopefully this matter has now been resolved after the statement made by the advisor to the Muslim Council of Britain.

In my view it should never have been an issue. The council should just have said no straight out. The request to move a body that offended their Muslim senstivities was completely ridiculous. I'm glad this has been made clear.

The council should have said at the beginning that this was a public burial ground, open to all. When the first lot wanted the second grave removed they should have said that it was not something that they could pronounce on because only the Ministry of Justice could order an exhumation and passed it on to the appropriate authority.

They have now alienated one minority in favour of another minority.

And it's just daft because both the protagonists are dead.

This issue reminded me of the recent thread about "crap" on graves. Several posters commented there about the way in which the Romany/Irish gypsy travelling community decorate graves and visit their loved ones to share a drink, at times.

I wonder if this was the issue behind the request from the Muslim family to move their loved ones grave.

absent - the deceased are dead, it seems the key protagonists are alive and complaining

I thought exactly that Iam when I saw the photographs of the grave in the DT. At least the flowers were all fresh but the number and "designs" were unusual to put it mildly.

Your last sentence Iam sums it up brilliantly!

In Japan you can take a pic nic and a bottle of saki and go to your family grave for a rollicking party. It's not the done thing though to sit on someone else's family grave even if there's a bit of a squash.

Sounds great stansgran Wonder how the family would take it if I included that in my will- must be buried in Japan. More seriously I absolutely don't want to be any hassle to my family or to take up space. I'd like to be cremated and ashes scattered in the sea to dissolve. Just hope the fishes don't object!

What next!

A quick update, this has been resolved, as expected.

The outcome of the council meeting was 'unanimous' and the policies remain the same.

'" Burbage Parish Council has sought to resolve this matter in a fair and transparent manner and has had extensive dialogue with both families concerned. We have taken extensive legal advice on all matters associated with the issues raised.

Burbage cemetery has a non-denominational, multi faith facility and requests from all communities living in and around Burbage will be treated equally and fairly in line with our policies"

Pity they didn't just say that to the family in the first place! I wonder how much the council has spent on the 'extensive legal advice'

In another words 'Like it or lump it'!
Quick cremation and scatter my ashes in the sea is my request, as another GN said, I rather like the thought of travelling further than when alive - pleasant thoughts of ending up on an exotic beach somewhere.....

POGS, all councils have their own lawyers, so we are paying for the legal advice anyway.
Or they did have before the government cut their grants.
It would be interesting to find out.
What they have done is defuse a potentially volatile situation, which is good.