Not to want to be blessed all the time

I will say 'oh bless him/her' usually about a child or maybe a family pet, but I'm quite sure I would never say it about an adult, because it does sound patronising, I feel. I use the phrase in the same way that I would say 'oh love him'. But the use of 'bless' and 'enjoy' is lazy.
Equally, I hate the way people (politicians, businessmen etc) will say something is 'key' to, e.g. success, survival etc., rather than 'the key'.
I knew someone who used to say, if there was a problem or something that needed to be attended to, 'I'll ask (x) to deal it' or 'Will you deal?', always omitting the 'with'. SO irritating. I wanted to ask her if she was playing cards.

I shouldn't have said that Baubles! Apologies to your late granny.

I suppose we should start worrying when the blessing comes with the laying on of hands!

I think "May God bless you and keep you" should be reserved for vicars. Or lay preachers.

The rest of us should be content with God bless.

The thing is, until the other day, I had never heard anyone say this at all, and then to get it two times in one day seemed strange.

Exactly, Ana, it's the 'Awww, bless!'
I wouldn't mind a normal blessing from any source, though I may be a bit surprised.As Numberplease says, it's better than a curse.
The bless you thing is fine if you sneeze also.

Exactly, Marelli - nothing wrong with 'Bless you', sincerely meant, just not that syrupy 'bless...'

Oh dear, number - I know I shouldn't have sniggered when I read that, but it's just the way you 'said' it!
I don't mind people saying 'bless you' to me, either, if they feel I've helped out in some way, but don't go for that "awww, bless!"

I must be very unusual, as I don`t mind, or find it patronising, if anyone says "bless you" to me, as long as it`s said in a friendly way. It`s better than when our horrible neighbour said to me "shut up, you stupid old cow!", when I asked him to not use bad language in front of my then 3 year old grandson.

Aw bless is one of the sickliest phrases being used more often. I have never had is said to me and very rarely hear it but when I do, I just cringe.

I don't mind, 'enjoy your meal' being shortened to 'enjoy' if it is said with sincerity but when it is said off hand, I ignore it.

sara4, I agree about this intrasitive use of 'enjoy'. When and why did this enter the language? And what's wrong with saying, 'Enjoy your meal'?

I don't like "enjoy" as my food is placed in front of me. Is it an instruction? Have I got to enjoy it, or else!

Someone I worked with used to say it to me all the time and I used to immediately feel 10 years older .

janeainsworth I felt quite unprepared for it as I was never taught the etiquette for being a blessee rather than a blesser!
I was very fed up once when I heard my DD's former MIL saying as I approached "Here comes your mother. Bless her". I felt as though I was not the full shilling!

My DD says it to me all the time but when her own DD says it to her she says 'don't be so patronising'

DD uses it in an ironic way probably as a reaction to its overuse. I don't hear it much in these parts we are still on Alright Ducks here.

There is a vast difference between "God bless you" to someone who has been speaking of their troubles and is in need of a spot of divine blessing (whether or not you think God is real) and a shallow "Bless!" as usually said indulgently about (not to) a child who has said something endearingly innocent. Yes, patronised is how I would feel if it were said of me.

baubles, your grandmother was pronouncing a benediction which was sincerely meant. I don't mind if someone says 'bless you' when I sneeze because that's a tradition.

That wasn't quite the situation I had in mind, Jane10!

My darling grandmother used to say 'May god bless you and keep you' when speaking to someone who had been sharing their troubles. I always thought it was lovely although I'm not a believer, but that was probably down to her warmth and complete sincerity.

I was once walking down the street with some learning disabled people that I was working with when a nun stopped us and proceeded to subject us to a prolonged blessing. None of us knew what to say or do! Eventually I just sais thanks and we walked on. Can't say any of felt the better of it!

I think it's a pity when the word is used in the way described, because if someone says 'Bless you' and it is used in the old way, to mean 'may Gid bless you' and sincerely meant, it is the nicest and most gracious way of thanking someone - by wishing that they will receive God's blessings or gifts.

I find it irritating to hear and wouldn't use it myself but I can't be arsed to do anything so energetic as to hate it. It's a wince and move on thing with me.

It is one thing that really irritates me too. It is very patronising.

I can't stand it - it sounds so utterly insincere coming from someone who hardly knows you or the children in the photograph you're showing. It's a lazy way of showing appreciation.