New update on my reclusive neighbours.....

Alie thinking of you {{{hug}}}

You're in my thoughts dear Alie. just wish I could do more to help. ((((Hugs))))

Alie my thoughts are with you too, it must be so difficult having to deal with all the things that need sorting out, when you must just want to grieve.
look after yourself (hugs)

You are a strong woman, dear Alie but this is such a hard time for you, and you know we are all with you in spirit. I am glad the Samaritians are walking with you too. Sending my love.

I'm so very sorry to hear of this Alie - glad that The Samaritans were able to help you in your time of need

I'm so sad for your loss, Alie. You are in my thoughts, and I'm sending hugs too. Please try to take good care of yourself

Thinking of you Alie.

Thought about you a lot, Alie, over the last few days. Look after yourself. xx

Let us know when the funeral is; we can, at least, be with you in spirit.

Alie - I am so glad that the listening ear of a Samaritan helped you through last night - how good that they are there. You can let it out to someone who is not also grieving.

Your son's partner sounds as though he is really appreciating your support.

Thinking of you.

Oh Allie - how are the children coping?

Last night I spent about an hour on the phone to the Samaritans...both helpful friends here are away! I cried a lot.
But the man on the phone was so patient, and when I hung up I felt somehow lighter.

Today I have been in Oxford again and Jayne's partner was in a bit of a state, but things did improve, there were friendly visitors (family) and he has just texted me goodnight.
Tomorrow back again, and there will be a discussion about when/where/what as regards the funeral.....

The very worst thing to have to cope with Alie.

Thanks - Alie

Still thinking of you, Alie. Take care.

What a tough time you're having, Alie. Sending you my best wishes

Sending you my best wishes, Alie I hope you manage to get some sleep.

Just back from Oxford again....think some things are sorted out but more to come.Oh what a business!!
Thank you everybody.

Do take time to look after yourself too Alie

Thinking of you Alie

really sorry to hear such sad news..what a shock for you all.

I am so sorry for your loss, Alie.

I've only just caught up with this too - how very sad. Sending condolences and hoping this is the end of all your bad news.

Only just read the thread I am truly sorry for you loss Alie

Alie I have just caught up with this thread, I am so sorry