I'm glad it's not just me!
I think I'll take your advice Hilda and make everything very clear at point of drop off. I could even play the 'silly old fool' card and get her to repeat everything twice
I don't mind looking after sick children as it often involves extra hugs, but I do get stir crazy if I can't take them out of the house.
sticky labels on apples - remove before washing!
Things you find stressful that other people don't notice.