I am so sorry for you and I have an idea of how you feel. And you are right, nothing prepares you for this.
My beloved husband of 41 years died two months ago and,despite a close, loving family, wonderful grandsons and many supportive friends, I remain devastated.
Everybody is so kind and sympathetic and I greatly appreciate that..... but of course, try as the do, they can't really understand the depth of my loss. How could anyone who has not lived through it?
The only advice I can offer you is that if you have widowed friends, talk to them about how you feel. I have found it helpful. They do understand. And there is some consolation in the fact that my husband will never have to suffer this terrible desolation.
By the way, I don't do Facebook, Twitter etc and have never before responded to a post but I felt so sad for you and hope this helps a little.
One day at a time. X
Gransnet forums
AIBU
Join the conversation
Registering is free, easy, and means you can join the discussion, watch threads and lots more.
Register now »Already registered? Log in with:
Gransnet »