Are you perhaps over sensitive to noise (I ask because I am myself!). When we were first married DH and I lived in a flat and whilst he thought nothing of the noise coming from above, it would drive me demented. One of the reasons I now live in a detached property.
I did speak to the upstairs neighbours and explained we could hear everything (including when they went to the loo!). They did become quieter after that. Perhaps you could invite him in for a coffee and explain, in a friendly way, how noisy it is in your flat and that you would appreciate it if he could turn down his TV/not slam doors etc., you never know he may be completely unaware he is causing your problems.
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