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NanKate Tue 06-Oct-15 07:35:57

On Sunday we went to a NT property for a lovely walk through the grounds to look at the trees beginning to turn, it was wonderful.

We stopped at the cafe for coffee and cake. The young man serving us was very pleasant and polite but when I looked down I could see he had dirty finger nails. It made me feel sick when he touched the cup. I must be fair he looked clean and had clean hands, but those nails yuk !

I filled in the comment form and handed it in before I left. No doubt I will get the same sort of washy washy reply from the NT as I did last time I made a complaint.

Alea Thu 08-Oct-15 11:56:15

Just a note on dog poo scooping shock
Some poo bags are titchy and just useless, I use nappy sacks which of course have the nice little handles to tie the doings up. I put my hand right inside the bag so that it is inside out over my hand up to my wrist) pick up the offending item, turn bag right way round, then tie the handles. Even in the pitch dark it never rarely fails. Another idea might be to have a few lightweight disposable gloves (like NHS use) and after you dump the poo bag, bin the glove in a regular litter bin, peeling it off inside out in case there are traces on the outside.
Final observation, rather like nappies, one's own baby DC and DGC's nappy changing, no prob, but other babies? Maybe. In the same way I feel no revulsion at clearing up after Grace or my granddog, but "strange" dog poo on shoes? Eurgh!!!!

Stansgran Thu 08-Oct-15 11:48:59

I had to go for a pre op educational session at the local hospital yesterday.The occupational therapist showed us how to put on socks with a plastic thingummy. She put them on over socks the soles of which were not very clean at all. At that time in the morning there was no excuse for dirty socks and I can't imagine her having padded around the corridors in stockinged feet as an excuse. She's going to come and assess my home .hmmmm. I'm with JBF
I wish I loved the Human Race;
I wish I loved its silly face;
I wish I liked the way it walks;
I wish I liked the way it talks;
And when I'm introduced to one,
I wish I thought "What Jolly Fun!"

Professor Sir Walter Alexander Raleigh (1861-1922)

Katek Thu 08-Oct-15 10:29:04

I'm with you on public loos Jingl-always open doors with sleeve or tissue and then use hand sanitiser outside the loo. Door handles are no go area for me.

jinglbellsfrocks Thu 08-Oct-15 09:54:06

I am only germ phobic in a narrow sort of way. I can happily pick up a fallen apple in the garden and eat it after only a cursory rub on my sleeve, sometimes with soil encrusted hands. And I eat the dampers GS makes for me in his garden - definitely no handwashing there.

It's postly public loos with me. It could spring from my natural underlying dislike of the human race.

TriciaF Thu 08-Oct-15 09:09:46

Hildajenni - I was going to mention that about your immune system needing a few bacteria too.
But handwashing is important.
Another thing to worry about - my friend had a letter from the local hospital warning that a worker in the Dept. where she had recently been seen has been found to have scabies shock Look out for an itchy rash.
Evidently there's a lot of it about here.

Greyduster Thu 08-Oct-15 09:06:24

I don't regard myself as particularly germ phobic (in spite of posts above); I've cleaned up cat poo from the garden, dog poo from where one or other of us has inadvertently stepped in it; but when I took my sister in law's dog for a walk while she was staying with us recently, and had to clean up after her, I found the whole thing particularly distasteful. Despite the kitchen paper and poo bags and all the rest of it, I managed to get some on my hands and that, and the fact of having to carry it home (no bins) rather tipped me over the edge! I spent ages in the downstairs loo scrubbing my hands and my nails and then put Dettol spray on them. I know; complete wimp! For the avoidance of any doubt, I do like dogs.

hildajenniJ Thu 08-Oct-15 08:46:34

The saying goes, "a man has to eat a peck of dirt before he dies". You need a few bacteria to keep your immune system on it's toes. I used to be a nurse but I never worry about cleanliness. Good hand hygeine is all you need.

seacliff Thu 08-Oct-15 07:15:44

I'm feeling quite paranoid now - I never give these things a thought - apart from avoiding touching loo door on way out if it looks a rather grubby place.

However, we recently got 2 rescue kittens and have found they have a nasty parasite infection (giardia) which is apparently very catching and hard to kill. So wish I could "see" the germs - am washing everthing with bleach and getting steam cleaner out for first time in ages.

Shula Thu 08-Oct-15 05:46:20

If I am put off by people serving me with dirty hands I always change my orders.

Nelliemoser Wed 07-Oct-15 23:45:32

What the heck is this thread all about now????
grin
I never realised so many people were quite so germ phobic. How have I survived all these years without worrying.

rosequartz Wed 07-Oct-15 23:37:17

I do wear those gloves when I handle meat ....

(am I weird?)

Anya Wed 07-Oct-15 21:01:45

Virtual not vital....blame the gloves.

Anya Wed 07-Oct-15 20:48:51

And throw vital germ-free kisses?

Though after reading this thread I am now posting on my iPad wearing surgical gloves.

Indinana Wed 07-Oct-15 19:54:21

grin roses

rosesarered Wed 07-Oct-15 19:52:42

Let's all clap our ( clean) hands, and say amen to that Indinana.

Indinana Wed 07-Oct-15 19:50:29

Good grief! A feud? With the lovely jinglbells of all people? What on earth are you talking about Casawan? confused

There was a bit of a spat between me and Anniebach earlier, but heavens above, it was nothing serious. Certainly not a feud shock. Just a bit of healthy disagreement, misunderstanding, call it what you like.

I can assure you I've never had a feud with anyone. I wouldn't know how I could learn though

And thank you jings I love you too [heart emoticon] smile

annodomini Wed 07-Oct-15 19:49:45

Could we be into the obscure area of meta-feuds?

Ana Wed 07-Oct-15 19:35:17

grin

rosesarered Wed 07-Oct-15 19:32:12

Then organise a march, then find some links.....

rosesarered Wed 07-Oct-15 19:31:36

Jingl is innocent! I shall start a petition! grin

jinglbellsfrocks Wed 07-Oct-15 18:45:14

Yes. Perhaps Indinana and anniebach could check the thread too.

And even comment.

Ana Wed 07-Oct-15 18:22:47

I wondered that too, jingl - a case of mistaken identity, perhaps?

jinglbellsfrocks Wed 07-Oct-15 18:20:15

Casawan are you sure it was me you saw as being in some kind of a feud?

Would you please check the thread again.

Greyduster Wed 07-Oct-15 17:18:46

A young man I know who is at college doing A levels got a job waiting on at the restaurant at a racecourse local to his home. I asked him how it was going. "Okay," he said, "but I wouldn't eat there - I've seen what goes on in the kitchen". He wouldn't elaborate!

annodomini Wed 07-Oct-15 17:10:04

I know our dentist has autoclaves for his instruments, but I thing I have heard that a lot of surgical instruments are disposable nowadays. Could be wrong. Cutlery, sterile or not, doesn't normally come into contact with broken skin as surgical instruments inevitably do.