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Call me an old misery

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vampirequeen Sun 15-Nov-15 16:07:02

We did that instead of sending Christmas cards at work.

I hope Santa doesn't bring:
Bubble bath (we only have a shower).
Anything with nuts in.
Socks.
Big knickers (from my mam usually)
Hankies.
DVDs
Make up/make up remover/face creams/body lotions

I've suggested to Santa's Little Helpers (DDs and DH) that I'd like another Pandora bead. If it's glass I'd like it to be pink or purple. If it's silver I'd like it to have something to do with love.

I'm hoping that Santa also brings some chocolates, a smelly candle and maybe a gift voucher or two.

rosesarered Sun 15-Nov-15 16:03:11

Hmmmn, difficult as I like most things, but

Bath things,
A random ornament or vase ,
Socks.

Anya Sun 15-Nov-15 15:48:05

Anno I also like these charity gifts. When I was working, instead of a silly secret Santa gift, we'd club together and one person was designated to choose a gift to send. We sent goats, chickens, trained a teacher, and so on over the years smile

Anya Sun 15-Nov-15 15:44:05

I've simply sent the 'children' an email saying I'd like some green Amber and where to find it on sale locally, and if it's too much to club together.

Job done!

annodomini Sun 15-Nov-15 15:37:52

I'm with you Liz46 I have asked my family not to give me anything that will clutter up my house more than it already is. They have, in the past, given me experiences for birthday and Christmas - flying lesson, trip to Rome, balloon flight, massage and facial... They have been wonderfully thoughtful, but this year I have asked them to donate to Save the Children's Wishlist on my behalf. I have everything I could need or want and quite a lot more - especially scarves! For my birthday, a family in Africa received a pair of goats; and a year's health care has been provided for a child. Lovely DS1 also presented me with a small box of truffles which I was happy to share; and equally lovely DS2 brought a handsome bouquet. I have also asked them to choose from the SCF wishlist for Christmas.

Charleygirl Sun 15-Nov-15 15:28:21

I could not agree more tanith.

tanith Sun 15-Nov-15 15:26:28

I'd prefer to have an 'experience' although I've told everyone not to buy us presents we have all that we need and I hate them to waste money on things I neither want or need.

Liz46 Sun 15-Nov-15 15:08:35

I agree with most of the above. Last year one of my daughters bought me a visit to a bird of prey centre. She came with me and we handled the most beautiful owls and went on a hawk walk. There was also a little bundle of fluff, a baby barn owl, that we were allowed to gently hold. That was a good present. I don't want 'things'. If I want anything, I will go and choose it myself.
Several years ago we stopped buying my aunt presents and take her out for a meal instead. She enjoys the outing and the company but doesn't receive any clutter.

Antjexix Sun 15-Nov-15 15:00:10

Not sure i'm keen on foodgifts neither.

Antjexix Sun 15-Nov-15 14:57:55

Dvd's
Underwear
Ornaments

grannylyn65 Sun 15-Nov-15 14:51:31

Body lotion, usually get enough to fill a bath!!

merlotgran Sun 15-Nov-15 14:51:11

Same as Charleygirl - No bath stuff as we only have a shower.
No coaster sets.
No ornaments.

Nothing wrong with upmarket food pressies grin

Charleygirl Sun 15-Nov-15 14:45:42

Every year I am given a selection of chutneys, each of which I hate.

I do not like
food (as gifts)
boxes of chocolates
bath stuff (I do not have a bath)
ornament
placemats

Luckygirl Sun 15-Nov-15 14:40:12

My DD asked me what I would like and I found a book on amazon for 13p - she says she might stretch to that!!

No smellies, no chocolate, no Xmas novelties, no tat.

Grannyknot Sun 15-Nov-15 14:40:01

You're an old misery.

grin

Coolgran65 Sun 15-Nov-15 14:38:32

Bath stuff
Chocolate
Ornament

NanKate Sun 15-Nov-15 14:30:53

What 3 things would you rather not be given this Christmas.

Jar of luxury pickle - still have last year's unopened.
Framed picture or photograph - not an inch of space on wall or table.
Scented candle to light - DH thinks they are a fire hazard,