I was shown a thread on Mumsnet about a 12 year old girl with MH problems who has claimed that her DGM had touched her inappropriately. The grandmother has heart problems. There is also mentioned a possibility that the 12 year old is upset that DM has to take DGM to hospital appointments.
The majority of posters think that the daughter should be believed which would be reversed that the DGM is not to be believed.
While I realise that this is a dreadful situation, both the girl and the older woman are vulnerable the mum/daughter is being told to prioritise the daughter. I feel that both vulnerable people need appropriate help and the middle lady also needs help with this.
What do you think?