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Patronising or what?

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Elegran Mon 16-May-16 15:22:28

What exactly are you saying "Why not?" to, Nonnie1 ? I am a bit confused.

Was it to KatyK saying "'why is it oh bless just because he is 84?'

Or was it to him going on the programme in the first place (I agree, good for him! He should be admired, not treated like a toddler who has just achieved something brilliant, like taking two steps without falling over )

cookynan Mon 16-May-16 15:20:15

I wasn't commenting about him being on the show (as you say good for him. The performance was unintentionally amusing btw)

It was the reaction when he walked on that annoyed me. "Oh bless" simply because of his age is unbelievably patronising. They don't say that to anyone else (unless they are under 10 when it's probably fair enough because they are small and cute)

Nonnie1 Mon 16-May-16 14:47:23

First message did not go on............... doh

Nonnie1 Mon 16-May-16 14:46:52

Why not?

I think it is wonderful to see older people making their mark. Good for him I say

Nonnie1 Mon 16-May-16 14:45:34

Why not? How many 84 year old men would even dream of doing something like that. Good for him I say. Old people are relevant and instances like this hi-light that point.

KatyK Mon 16-May-16 14:35:04

I watched this with my granddaughter and I said to her 'why is it oh bless just because he is 84?'

thatbags Mon 16-May-16 13:19:57

It does sound as if it was an unnecessarily patronising comment, cooky. Was his performance good?

cookynan Mon 16-May-16 13:14:14

Did anyone else see Britain's Got Talent this weekend? There was an 84 year old man taking part and as soon as he walked on stage Amanda's reaction was to say "oh bless"

Anyone else find this incredibly patronising? You might say it about a young child but about an adult? You wouldn't say "oh bless" if a 30/40/50 something walked on woud you? Everyday ageism I think