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to hope for a donation?

(61 Posts)
janeainsworth Mon 23-May-16 11:03:24

Agree with you Ann and Gk
I think charity shops often have people weeding out what is valuable and what is not, and if they identify something worth £0000's it is sold through appropriate channels.
Anyway caveat emptor works both ways.
Do charities contact a donor who has inadvertently given them a Ming vase so they can have the opportunity to sell it at auction?
No, I thought not.........

granjura Mon 23-May-16 11:03:16

Did you ever buy a house given to a charity annsixty? Quite different surely.

Grannyknot Mon 23-May-16 10:56:57

I wouldn't tie the two together.

I give to charities of my choice when I feel like it...so if I had a windfall, one of my favourite charities might benefit, or maybe I would spoil a family member.

GandTea Mon 23-May-16 10:27:24

When we go to boot sales, isn't that what we are trying to find, that diamond ring for a few pence at the bottom of a box of junk ?
If it was from a charity shop, I would like to think I would make a donation back, but it hasn't happened yet so it's hypothetical.

annsixty Mon 23-May-16 09:45:15

Or even give some of the huge profit back to the vendor.

annsixty Mon 23-May-16 09:43:27

But I expect that many will want to keep whatever it is they bought . They must have liked it to buy it in the first place. So they haven't actually profited.
I don't suppose anyone who bought a house some years ago and it is now worth 10 times the buying price are going to donate to charity.

granjura Mon 23-May-16 09:34:37

Badenkate, we often say exactly that ... if it was me, I'd just have to give a substantial proportion back to the charity- and would hope most would do so.
Why is it unrealistic to do 'the right thing'? - sad.

Indinana Mon 23-May-16 09:14:38

In an ideal world yes. But unlikely. You're definitely not being unreasonable in thinking they should give some back.

harrigran Mon 23-May-16 09:00:05

Doubtful. I would like to think people would donate.

jinglbellsfrocks Sun 22-May-16 23:15:01

Not unreasonable to hope that it happens. Just unrealistic. Unfortunately.

Badenkate Sun 22-May-16 23:06:11

Watching Antiques Roadshow, there is usually someone who says 'I bought this for 50p in a charity shop' before being told it's worth £400. Is it unreasonable to hope that if they sell it, they make some donation to the charity? Or do you think that's generally what happens and I'm just cynical?