thanks so much for lovely replies. Sadly over the weekend things have got worse. I asked if she would like a corsage, she asked what this was, I explained, then she replied, "what if i said NO?". I told her she didnt have to wear one. She then made unkind remarks about my 70's themed hen night, called me a drama Llama. Rightly or wrongly this morning, i told her if she was finding this too difficult and couldnt be happy for us then she was under no obligation to accept invitation.
EmilyHarburn, ur message was very interesting. My daughter moved many miles away to uni when she was 18, has gone on to study for a master's degree, has bought an apartment with her partner (a really lovely guy), held down a few good jobs, made friends, has an excellent social life etc etc so I think it is time she grew up and stopped acting like a 'spoilt princess' as one of my friends described her this morning