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Is this counted as a swear word?

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dorsetpennt Mon 15-Aug-16 09:27:46

Maybe not a swear word as such but this did give me a jolt. Following GB's success in gymnastics at Rio overnight, the BBC had various gymnastics on show outside their building. This also included some little girls giving examples of their routines. An interviewer also chatted to one eleven year old girl to explain a particular routine . The child said you do such and such and lift your 'bum' not bottom but bum. My granddaughters don't use this word, don't hear from us . If they did we would put them right pdq. So did this come from home or worse their trainers ? I know it might seem silly but to me it's the slippery slope to worse language to come .

Lewlew Thu 18-Aug-16 15:46:42

I had a friend who was a professor who taught teachers how to organise TEFL programmes. She had a book about English swear words. Evidently the English language has more swear words than any other language in the world!

JessM Thu 18-Aug-16 19:45:17

Is the OP a piss-take? smile

gillybob Thu 18-Aug-16 22:01:15

I didn't think it was ?

petra Fri 19-Aug-16 08:12:18

Maybe not a swear word as such but this did give me a jolt
What happens when the OP hears the F word, go into cardiac arrest? Or walk around with ear defenders on.

Elegran Fri 19-Aug-16 10:08:15

If we define swear words, they were words which would once have been used to swear an oath. "I swear by Almighty God, . . ." etc etc. Some evolved into things like "bloody" (by our lady) which are still considered swearwords, some have been altered to be repectable ("Christ!" became crikey, "God!" became gosh)

Vulgar words for body parts are not exactly swear words, they are crude words for parts which polite people don't refer to directly. New words are constantly being coined, and the old ones are used less and thought to be coarse. Even f**k was once the everyday word for "carnal intercourse", and was used by everyone from kings to nuns.

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 19-Aug-16 10:26:55

I don't like the word 'bum'. But it's the terminology of the day, so what can you do? Sounds coarse. 'Bottom' is much nicer.

stillaliveandkicking Fri 19-Aug-16 21:06:04

Nothing wrong with bum in my normal universe smile quite like using the word arse too.

Luckygirl Fri 19-Aug-16 21:37:25

My 3 year old DGD asked me today if I minded her farting in my house. I said that was just fine. She then said "You can fart in my house if you want." That's friendship for you!

Candelle Sat 20-Aug-16 00:51:20

We were a bottom, tummy, wee wee, poo family. Without being twee, this is the way it was. 'Bum' would have been greeted with abject horror and a severe telling off!

However, language is always evolving, so the more widespread use of 'bum' nowdays is not shocking, just proof that semantic drift is in place.

My grandchildren use 'bottom burps' for - well, it's obvious, really - and I think that's great word usage.

I have just had a recall: I was at a friend's house and said 'crikey'. My friend's mother overheard and went bananas (another change in the use of a word?!) as she was very religious and I was blaspheming and in her house, too! I had absolutely no idea why she was so cross with me, as was allowed to use this word in my home but I learnt very quickly that a word can have different connotations.

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thatbags Sat 20-Aug-16 10:00:49

Topical article in the Times today saying profanity is "poetic" and "artful" and we should rehabilitate it.

thatbags Sat 20-Aug-16 10:01:12

lucky grin

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 20-Aug-16 10:08:19

lg grin

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 20-Aug-16 10:09:31

Yes. I quite like "arse" too. If you're going to be naughty, do it properly.

Riverwalk Sat 20-Aug-16 10:18:30

I'm at a loss to understand why wee is posher than pee! hmm

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 20-Aug-16 13:59:05

Pee is uncouth. Wee isn't. So there! grin

morethan2 Sat 20-Aug-16 14:54:55

I have a very posh friend who was chatting to me about her butcher she said and I quote " I said to him your a silly twat" well I almost passed out. I can swear people might expect me to swear but up to that moment I wouldn't have expected her to have ever heard a swear word. When she saw my face she was flummoxed and had no idea what she'd said. When I explained how rude that word was where I was born she could hardly believe me. Apparently it's not a swear word in some parts of the country. Well were I live it most certainly isshock

thatbags Sat 20-Aug-16 15:00:11

Twat = twit = eejit in Scotland. No big deal.

Lewlew Sat 20-Aug-16 15:11:00

Eejit.... love it!

Being a US/UK transplant some 20 years ago, I am still learning slang here. In my last job we had a Scottish girl, and one from the Lakes District. I was alternately called 'hen' and 'chicken' all day long. I loved it, and it always put me in a good mood.

Some locals here say 'my love' or 'lovey', but I don't hear it as much nowadays. Ooooo-arrrrr... the Wurzels! grin

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 20-Aug-16 22:22:33

"Twat" is absolutely awful! shock

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 20-Aug-16 22:23:48

Bags, you do know what it means, don't you?

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 20-Aug-16 22:24:22

Well, I think I know.

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 20-Aug-16 22:25:30

Googled it.

Yes, I do know.

Ana Sat 20-Aug-16 22:42:03

Yes - it doesn't mean 'twit' at all! hmm

Ana Sat 20-Aug-16 22:43:16

But I think a lot of people use it believing it does...

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 20-Aug-16 22:44:16

No. It means the same as another totally unusable word!