I have been getting really cheesed off that our retirement seems slightly blighted by OH's need to sleep! I am glad someone started a thread before I did.
Oh he potters most of the day, but whenever he sits down, from early afternoon onwards, he is likely to drop off. We'll often plan to watch a film together, and after half an hour he's slumped on the sofa, dead to the world. It happens all the time, and perhaps I wouldn't be so annoyed if he didn't put Sky Sports on every time he goes to watch TV, even first thing in the morning. Grrr. He never falls asleep and feels the need to check the sports news regularly.
I think I feel peeved because I am not a napper and never have been. It seems our together time is going to be quite lonely.
I realise he could have much worse habits, so I know I am being overly tetchy. Thing is, he is even fast asleep when I am thinking "Grrrr...he's in the Land of Nod again and not here!"[hmmm]
Yes, I do my own thing and read or change TV channels, but I wonder how he would like it if I were always 'absent'? I am seeing it as,wel, almost 'bad manners' or 'discourteous behaviour' and I know it's not and I am being silly. However, we are both recently retired, we haven't shared a house for very long, and it feels like we've all of a sudden become 'old'.
I have told him I am going to stash a livelier, younger man in the wardrobe and wheel him out when he nods off!