To expect peace in the Library

I can see that he was irritating but I like the fact that libraries have changed and are now community hubs.
Ours has a room upstairs with desks if you want to quietly work.

Our library expects reasonable hush in most areas and allows conversation in the foyer/seating area.
My DD very much objects to NOISY conversation and has been known to pretend to be on her phone commenting loudly on the shouting idiots beside her (who are usually also on a phone, not conversing in person).

Not in ours!

yes there's soundproof rooms or pods in most libraries

Thank you kitty, I'll do that

Yes, they do offer such a service Alishka, even the community run ones - well ours does. Give them a ring and ask.

Oh, I didn't know that about the father having to endorse your form back then.I was born in '44 and can't even remember when I wasnt a member of a library. And tiptoeing over the shiny wooden floors and whispering? Absolutely!

Do libraries not have Reading Rooms now, then? (Sorry I need to ask, but I've now got a forever disability, had to give up driving let alone walk any significant distance) so don't know.)

But hey! While thinking round this, do libraries still offer a home delivery service, anyone know? Just as long as your choice isn't of the 'bodice-ripping, heaving bosoms and doctor and nurse' variety, that'd be grand !

Lovely memories Alishka, but I don't know of any that smell of polish now. Maybe there are some but to me, most of them smell like offices with that photocopier fluid scent.

Like you, I loved the world of books, but it nearly didn't happen. I was not allowed to join because my mother had signed the form and it had to be my father. I was sent away by the librarian.

I felt very told off and shy about going back, but in the end he signed it and took me back himself. That would have been in the late 1950s and silence was sacred to the point of tiptoeing up to the counter to have my books stamped and signed out.

I've just read this, so saddened by what I've read
Our local library, far far more than my junior school,opened up to me a wondrous other world I could explore and learn about. During the long summer holidays I became a Vulcanologist - at 10! Absolutely devoured all the books I could borrow, and learned about rock formations at the same time.
'Course, at the same time, I was a world-famous horse dressage trainer!
And knew of Austria, courtesy of The Chalet School books, in detail

So much learning for fun wherever my imagination took me,so much, seemingly, lost.

But tell me, does that wonderful smell of old polished wood still remain? Please, don't take that away from me....

YABVU if you expect libraries to be quiet nowadays. The proud boast of my local library is 'We are not a quiet library'. It's true- the Co-op is quieter. I avoid my local library like the plague.

Yes, some people definitely love the sound of their own voices!

Not in a library so maybe I shouldn't post. But I think people have forgotten how to talk quietly and don't realise how loud they are. A few weeks ago we went for a pub lunch, choosing a quiet time of day to go. Well it was very quiet customer wise, not many there. All we could hear for all of our visit was the new landlady's voice just continually shouting. There was no need. I should think she was heard on the boats on the nearby canal. We won't be going back.

We might still be in England Newquay but not everyone speaks and reads English!

This have changed so much. Where I grew up the library was heaven to me-all those books. I was like a child in a sweet shop! But I did find the staff unhelpful and intimidating (to this scruffy kid from the slums).
My dear sister and I went back for a sentimental visit recently-what a shock! Notices in, it seemed, all sorts of languages (thought we were still in England and spoke English?) but helpful staff.
We were shocked to see a security man patrolling and he told some lads to clear off!

Ye Linsco56 that is very possible. I have much sympathy for the librarians and assistants. Even more so now that I know that they do not have the backing of management. I also actually think from a safety aspect they probably should be cautious.

NanSue It is possible the librarian was in fact a library assistant and didn't want to put her head on the chopping block. Lack of support from senior management who have absolutely no idea of how to lead from the front and provide little support to staff would make some people very reluctant to intervene.

I have 2 librarians in my family, one in a school and the other in a public lending library and I have heard some shocking stories.

What never ceases to amaze me is the absolute sense of entitlement, rudeness and aggression displayed by some people.

I am amazed and a little saddened at juggernaut and witzend having been reprimanded for putting a stop this type of behaviour, although I suppose it may explain the nonchalant attitude of the librarian that I mentioned it to. I also realise that she may have been up against possible hostility from the man involved.

Unfortunately this sort of person is everywhere now on public transport in shops I don't understand why they want strangers to know their business I know I don't . Our library as different things going on but most keep noise to a minimum even story time which I took my grandaughter to wasn't particularly noisy thing person in charge should have said something

In the library where I work, we ask people politely to take their call in the foyer, and most people are happy to oblige.

i always find this works, if someone is being loud whilst using a phone i start talking to them pretending to be the person on the other end of the phone so if he said are you taking the pi~s i woild reply no, im not taking the pi~s but you are !

I wasn't aware that libraries were no longer peaceful places. I think that man sounds awful and he should not have been shouting and swearing in the library. I totally agree with you.

I'm a librarian and I certainly would have asked the mobile phone loudmouth to lower his voice. We don't expect libraries to be deathly quiet, but neither do we tolerate inconsiderate behaviour that disturbs others - libraries are for everyone to use and enjoy, while we still have them.

Our Library and all the others in the county were at risk of closure due to council cuts and communities were asked to take them over. I was part of the Library Management Committee that took over the running of the one in our village. It is now a bright, lively and welcoming place and membership and issue figures are going up on a regular basis.

We have Family History classes, Rhyme Time, Saturday Stories, book sales, art and craft exhibitions and sales, children's and adult's competitions, a Lego club, meccano work shop, visits from scouts, brownies, playgroups and the village primary school. We have a coffee machine, newspaper, tables and chairs, talks and exhibitions and an independent book loan system.

Libraries are no longer quiet places!

As I said earlier, our town library still has a study area where people are asked to be quiet. I think this is important for the many older children in the area who don't have their own space at home to do their homework in peace. The bigger libraries should be able to accommodate different groups and different needs, but good manners should still be expected.

I worked in libraries for 25 years and saw many changes. The visitor figures were dropping by the month as were the book issues, so libraries became an easy target when savings were being made.To counteract this and because many library buildings were at the hub of communities, activities for children, older people, advice sessions etc were introduced, along with greater input from volunteers. There just was no way of justifying the cost of keeping the old quiet libraries going. I enjoyed many of the changes and felt we were giving something to our community, but a little bit of me would like a place of quiet still.