I'm quite lucky, Mr P will often take over cooking, and doesn't do a bad job at all.
We both have the lurgy at the moment, so have been dividing the labour, however the washing up seems to often come my way!
In all fairness, he often says "leave that, I'll do it" but as I'm loitering in the kitchen listening to The Archers, I may as well run a sink of water and do it, hate coming down to last nights dishes (no dish washer, unfortunately)