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Am I being Mean?

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Cherrytree59 Sun 05-Feb-17 19:21:24

confused. Think you might have got your numbers mixed up.
A sponsored walk equates to somebody else giving them money.
Going Kilimanjaro would be a great experience and they will see where money is going
Who knows in the future one of the youngsters maybe inspired to go and do more charitable work abroad.

thatbags Sun 05-Feb-17 19:21:02

No, you are not being mean. It's not mean to have doubts about some kinds of fund-raising. Besides which, you are not obliged to give money to every charity or cause that asks for it. Just give to causes using methods that don't make you feel uncomfortable.

rosesarered Sun 05-Feb-17 19:20:42

Nfk grin
I agree completely. There is little point travelling so far if all you want to do is raise money...it can be done here.

NfkDumpling Sun 05-Feb-17 19:17:04

No, I don't think so. What's wrong with doing a Peaks challenge or climbing Snowdon? Or clearing rubbish from beaches.

I'm looking for sponsorship for a safari. I need £2,000. I can't walk far so my challenge is to travel by jeep for six hours each day searching for big cats. It'll be quite an exhausting challenge!

Christinefrance Sun 05-Feb-17 19:16:58

Not sure about this one, they were actually doing something for the money. I would look at it the other way and say they wanted to travel and were raising money for charity as well.

GrandmaMoira Sun 05-Feb-17 19:12:36

I agree with you. If they are only concerned about charity fundraising, they would do it here. They obviously want to travel and raise something for charity as an added bonus.

Grannyknot Sun 05-Feb-17 19:06:20

confused

Mauriherb Sun 05-Feb-17 19:03:15

There were some young people in our supermarket packing bags to raise money to pay for a sponsored trip to Killimanjaro. They were raising money for a worthwhile charity, but needed £2000 each for the trip. I asked one of them why they couldn't do a sponsored walk in this country costing maybe £500, then give the charity the surplus £1500. I was met with vague looks and I politely said that I was happy to support the charity but didn't see why I should pay for them to travel . They clearly thought I was being mean ......is this the case ?