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Spreading coughs and colds

(58 Posts)
NanaandGrampy Tue 30-May-17 17:57:39

That's us too Maw .

I'd sell my soul for a super cuddle ( extra squidgy) and a kiss. Germs , coughs and colds are just life. We even kiss the dog lol on his head obviously !

Norah Tue 30-May-17 17:19:53

pixie1, I avoid hugging by never letting it begin (avoiding). I'm not much to hug and kiss except DH.

petra Tue 30-May-17 17:17:08

If my grandchildren aren't well they get more kisses and cuddles. How mean to avoid contact with them when they aren't well.

nanaK54 Tue 30-May-17 17:12:53

Oh I would always hug my grandchildren and we do cheek kisses, not lips....

My DH has to be very careful as he has a serious illness but he always has a hug

MawBroon Tue 30-May-17 16:11:58

It doesn't do to get too precious about catching the inevitable bugs the DGCs bring. Hugs needn't spread germs anyway and I would put up with any coughs and sneezes as the price for little arms flung round my neck! Never ever turn away from a tiny-how do you think they must feel? Hugs can be perfectly safe.
As for sneezes in the supermarket, I agree people can be very inconsiderate but all I can say is your reactions must be quicker than mine.
I wonder if our diminishing immune system might not merely be connected with ageing but because we may be mixing with fewer people. As a Secondary teacher I stayed immune to many assorted bugs from less than scrupulous teenagers but since retiring I seem to catch things more easily.
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Elrel Tue 30-May-17 15:53:46

Hugs and fist bumps (safer than handshakes re bacteria and way cooler for teens!).

I worry lest I give anything to DGCs! Under 5s do tend to come for kisses and get pecks on foreheads or cheeks. The baby gets a kiss on her head.

aggie Tue 30-May-17 15:34:08

we do hugs and never lip kisses

pixie1 Tue 30-May-17 15:27:53

I don't like people or grandkids to greet me with a kiss when they have a cold/flu/cough. I don't make a big issue of it - I just avoid contact.

I have been known to turn around if someone sneezes ahead of me in the supermarket aisle.

Now my daughter has accused me of not loving my grandchildren.

Opinions please.