I've hesitated before posting this, because I wouldn't want our family to be publicised. But it did upset me at the time.
I stayed with eldest daughter and her partner for a few days last week. They're in a difficult situation due to a water leak, ceilings down, furniture in store, insurance taking their time etc.
One evening eating our supper I'd had a soft nectarine, dipped my fingers in my glass of water to rinse off the juice (I often do that) then drank the water.
He was horrified - "that's disgusting!". My first reaction was puzzlement - why?
I do think he has a touch of OCHD, from previous experience.
But he and DD1 seem fond of eachother, (after many years of solo living for both) .
What do you think? I just dropped it at the time.