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What are your superstitions?

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MesMopTop Wed 27-Sept-17 00:36:47

Not sure where to put this, so apologies if I've posted in the wrong place. I was just thinking about some of the little things I do that are just superstitions. I know the world won't stop turning if I break one. Would be interesting to know other people's. If someone asks me to pass the salt, I won't hand it to them but will place it on the table in front of them. I don't borrow or lend salt either.,no shoes on the table either. I never bought a pram until after baby was born and if I see a newborn baby I give silver coins to the parents. Get some odd looks there until I expldin myself. I never buy fish on a Monday and I always greet the magpies. Won't have peacock feathers or lilacs in the house. I open the doors and windows after the new year bells and I could go on and on... What are some of your little quirks?

Legs55 Wed 27-Sept-17 11:49:56

I salute a single Magpie & speak the "Good morning Mr? Magpie & how's your Lady wife & lovely family". Touch wood for luck, throw spilt salt over left shoulder (into the eyes of the Devil), silver coin for a new baby, no new shoes on the table, there are many more.....grin

tigger Wed 27-Sept-17 11:06:33

Guests should always leave the house the same way as they entered.

pollyperkins Wed 27-Sept-17 10:57:09

Wow! I'm aware of a few of these things (never take any notice though) and have never heard of others. Am I going to have lots of bad luck?
I've never believed in superstitions and sometimes go out of my way to break them (eg I regularly open wet umbrellas in the house - how else do you dry them?) the only things I do is giving coins to new babies and saying white rabbit on the first of the month bcause it's just a bit of fun.
When I was a child any new coat had a coin in the pocket and people gave you money when wearing it. I enjoyed that one!

Stansgran Wed 27-Sept-17 10:54:56

Oh most of these. Quite a few are common sense.

Daddima Wed 27-Sept-17 10:54:39

I recognise nearly all of these, but I too would never put red & white flowers together, and would throw spilled salt over my shoulder. I'd never buy anything for a baby till it's born, and would always place a coin in a new baby's hand ( it's supposed to mean wealth for the child if they grip it!)

grannysue05 Wed 27-Sept-17 10:33:42

Saying something at exactly the same time as someone else means you must link little fingers and say "snap" .

pensionpat Wed 27-Sept-17 10:29:29

Grannyticktock. That coin would have been put into the baby's hand and little fingers wrapped round it. My youngest was given a 50 pence piece. Think they were quite new. No one thought of the implications of the many corners when the coin slipped on to his head. Oops!

sunseeker Wed 27-Sept-17 10:24:16

I was told that throwing salt over your left shoulder was so it would go in the devil's eyes! Opening umbrellas in the house, shoes on table, breaking mirrors, money in a new purse, walking under ladders - I grew up with all of those. Anyone else know the one about not letting a baby see itself in a mirror? I can't remember the reason now, it was either because the devil would leap out or the baby would have a problem with teething!!

merlotgran Wed 27-Sept-17 10:23:29

'Good morning Mr. Magpie....How is your lady wife today?'

I avoid walking under ladders, never open an umbrella in the house or put new shoes on the table.

Other than that I think I'm reasonably sane grin

I've always thought seven years of bad luck if you break a mirror is a bit harsh!!

loopyloo Wed 27-Sept-17 10:18:48

I am not superstitious... but to this day I can't put red and white flowers in a vase.

pamdixon Wed 27-Sept-17 10:12:32

I've got peacock feathers all over the house- am I doomed?

grannyticktock Wed 27-Sept-17 10:12:04

I recognise almost all of those, mostly from my (Scottish) mother, and a few from children's playground lore. The coins for the baby was new to us until we moved to Newcastle and had our first baby there. A colleague of my husband's called in one day, and after he left we were surprised and puzzled to find a coin in the cot near the baby's head.

I am quite different from my Mum, not superstitious at all, but it was with some sadness that I realised my children had never come across most of these beliefs, which I suppose are part of our culture.

Here's a more modern one, quoted by my daughter when she was about 10: "It's VERY RUDE for a girl to lend a boy her pencil sharpener!" The symbolism of this made my husband wince!

CariGransnet (GNHQ) Wed 27-Sept-17 10:05:25

Skweek1 we do that with eggs too - when they have been eaten we turn them over and bash them up so the witches can't sail in them, It's VERY important to do this grin

JanaNana Wed 27-Sept-17 10:04:31

Many of my superstitions are similar to yours. We always theoretically salute magpies and verbally say good morning to them. In the area I live, I think this stems from a tradition/superstition used by many of the RN to ward of bad luck at sea. Even now some of our family who are no longer in the RN and live nowhere near the sea still say and do this little salute everytime a magpie is spotted. If we spill salt a bit has to be thrown over the shoulder to prevent bad luck. Definitely no new shoes on the table ...more bad luck. In Lincolnshire where my husband was born...if you visit anyone you have to leave by the same door you entered ....no going out of a different door ...no knowing what bad luck that might bring! And don,t even think of breaking a mirror unless you want a whole seven years worth of it. I think different regions of the country probably have their own as well as the ones which are generally known.

Magrithea Wed 27-Sept-17 09:59:22

My Dad wouldn't have lilac or peacock feathers in the house - his gran said they were unlucky! I always salute a magpie on its own, pairs are fine!

maryhoffman37 Wed 27-Sept-17 09:53:40

I greet magpies too but our youngest daughter invented the 21st century PC version "I salute you Citizen Magpie, you and your significant other if applicable"!

I love peacock feathers and lilac too much not to have them in the house. But not buying fish on a Monday is just sensible as fishermen don't go out on a Sunday (except Peter Grimes and he came to a bad end).

lemongrove Wed 27-Sept-17 09:53:30

No, not superstitious at all, but it's common sense not to walk under ladders.

Liz46 Wed 27-Sept-17 09:51:02

Things happen in threes. Other than that I am not superstitious - touch wood!

mops52 Wed 27-Sept-17 09:44:56

I don't open the windows but do all the other things. I won't give anything sharp as a present either unless I get a penny in return. I blame my Cornish ancestry.

mischief Wed 27-Sept-17 09:36:23

Don't walk under a ladder, but that's because I don't want anything dropped on my head. Fingers crossed. Touch wood. But they are just things I say. I don't believe anything will happen if I don't say them. So, no, I don't have any superstitions, just habits.

Teetime Wed 27-Sept-17 09:34:38

Some of mine have practical reasons;-
- no shoes on the table =unhygienic
- don't walk under ladders =something may fall on your head

That kind of thing but
-red and white flowers in the same vase - blood and bandages (old nurses superstition)

wildswan16 Wed 27-Sept-17 09:31:44

I always give a silver coin to the baby too. "silvering the baby" is said to bring them wealth in later life. It first has to go into the baby's hand, then passed onto the parent.

A rowan tree in front of the door is also good luck and I have never had one until I retired and moved into a second floor flat. I now have one under my living room window so I hope that counts.

Diddy1 Wed 27-Sept-17 09:28:18

Under the ladder, salt over left shoulder when spilt, coin in a new purse etc. remember from my childhood, but one I still do not do is to have red and white flowers in the same vase, this is from my Nursing days, we never did that, it was supposed to be a sign of death! No use taking any chances!

saoirse1961 Wed 27-Sept-17 09:24:52

Came from Ireland. After the Hallowe'en party, we used to leave a glass of water and the food that was left over from the party for the souls that passed through the house. Then in the morning we'd have 3 sips of the water and bless ourselves !!

Christinefrance Wed 27-Sept-17 09:24:26

Our mothers must have been twins Auntieflo all those superstitions for me and the magpie one.