Morning Yoyo I haven't read all the post, few pages, but no mention of the father of groom, how does he feel about you giving a speech or is he not in the picture, for what ever reason?
I walked my youngest D down the isle, I gave the f.o.b speech, as her father hadn't been in her life since she was 3yrs old. He wasn't invited to the wedding and when there were rumours he was flying over from Indonesia to be there, s.i.l said he would knock him out if he appeared!
He did appear [all expenses paid trip, complements of his dad, D granddad]
When all the speeches were made, D's father came to the top table, notes in hand, and gave his speech! He did, surprisingly, complement me on job well done, bringing our 3 children up on my own! Towards the end of the reception, my D had a big fluming row with her dad, that I had to pull her away from. Despite all this, it was a lovely wedding , no really
Those urging caution with your new d.i.l are giving you good advise, as the above D & my precious GC, I haven't seen or heard of for 5yrs+ and I didn't interfere in any way!
My eldest D's wedding was stunning, I was the normal m.o.b, in the background, but on the top table. My D did invite her dad [although said she would have preferred him not there] her granddad walked her down the isle, it would have been my dad, had he still been here. My D was very anxious at what her dad might do, but never would have dreamt what! Their first dance was actually two dances, the first romantic which then turned into a hip hop style, with a bit of Michael Jackson, really good, but unfortunately her dad decided to join them and so there were actually 3 dancing the first dance, D's dad dancing on one side, D in the middle, all on their wedding video , eventually his dad managed to get him off the dance floor, so they could finish their first dance on their own