Yes, Margs, I agree with you. Not much of a father. I don't see how Prince Harry can be blamed for not meeting him; he sounds as though he has deliberately avoided contact. And I am sorry for Meghan.
My adult children have been trying for the past two years to arrange a visit to their father who lives in Spain, one particularly anxious to introduce the new partner, but he is always occupied with friends and current wife's family staying, or is awaiting / recovering from hospital treatment. He does thoughtfully send pictures of his operation scars, to keep in touch.