hi i need some help please
i took in my grandson 2 months ago he is 13 after his dad went to prison for assault my daughter passed away when he was just 9 months old, it has been 12 years.
he is extremely difficult i didnt see him that much before this as we live quite far and i have to as my husband is in a care home at the moment and i have to be close to him.
he came here and things were obviously very hard for him and a big big change but he expected to have things just handed to him when he arrived "you dont own an ipad" and "what the fuck will i watch on the tv" just lots of disrespect and swearing in casual conversation, i try and tell him he will not come here and speak to me like that but he just swears more and asks me "and what the fuck are you going to do about it" he has already stolen money and does not come back till very late at night and i dont know what to do.
i try and see my husband but i have not been able to see him much since my grandson moved in, he does go to school thankfully but he started at a new one this month and school phones me a lot to say i have to collect him because of him hitting and i could no believe that and told them i was sorry but i could not because i was seeing my husband.
o think my only option is to put him into foster care or some kind of home that can help him as i definitely cant,
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