I totally understand how you feel basslady I was exactly the same with my DD when she had her babies but she was a natural when it came to childbirth.
My DIL who was expecting at the exact same time as gillybob's DD was classed as an older new mum at 35 and the poor girl had an emergency c-section and it was only after I was told this did I go to pieces with worry for her,5mths on and we also have a beautiful baby girl.
Filling up their freezer is the best gift you do for them it will take untold pressure off them as they ajust to their new addition. enjoy your DGD xx
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