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AIBU to feel offended

(78 Posts)
janeainsworth Sun 24-Feb-19 17:30:30

Do you ask her how she would like you to do things?

phoenix Sun 24-Feb-19 17:25:34

If she is constantly finding fault, and isn't appreciative of what you do, then stop doing it, and leave her to stand on her own two feet!

Milly12 Sun 24-Feb-19 17:20:45

My DD had her first baby last summer and I have run off my feet babysitting and generally helping out. She relies heavily on my help but whatever I do she constantly criticises me and tells me I am doing things wrong. I am not the most confident of people and I feel she is constantly undermining me. I know there have been significant changes in the way babies are bought up and I generally check on the internet to check I am doing things the right way but whatever I do never seems good enough for her!