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Has she gone too far?

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Pollyanna2 Fri 01-Mar-19 09:58:34

There's not much in the way of family news I can pass on to my family these days - even talking on the phone to my sister in Canada - she's seen it all on facebook and sometimes can keep ME up to date with what my family in uk are up to!!

ReadyMeals Fri 01-Mar-19 09:58:17

You need to set your privacy settings so that only "Friends" can read your posts. Unless you post your news onto local groups, in which case anyone who belongs to that group can read the posts. Your neighbors are likely to belong to the same local groups as you.

Littleannie Fri 01-Mar-19 09:55:02

Why on earth do people want to use Facebook in the first place?

moonbeames Fri 01-Mar-19 09:46:42

She might just have been friendly. I don't put much at all on facebook for that reason, its private. If I want someone to know something I will tell them. Private.

razzmatazz Fri 01-Mar-19 09:45:53

Change your settings to 'Friends only' then only the people on the list can see your postings not the whole world which can be risky. YOU choose the people who can see your posts. I use Facebook to keep up to date with my family and friends.

AlgeswifeVal Fri 01-Mar-19 09:45:06

I agree with BlueBelle. You are being unreasonable. It was nothing scandalous to read about. I hope the little lad gets on well in his new school.

harrysgran Fri 01-Mar-19 09:44:57

I don't think you are being stalked the lady just made a comment on something that had been written for others to see sounds like a friendly neighbour which we could all do with

BlueBelle Thu 28-Feb-19 18:30:30

Yes you are being unreasonable I m afraid someone has posted the information on FB hoping people will see it and comment on it so that is all the acquaintance has done

sodapop Thu 28-Feb-19 17:43:04

If the information is out there then you can hardly complain if people read it kircubbin
I don't understand why people feel the need to inform the world about their family and personal lives. Yes I'm aware its an old fashioned attitude but we hear such a lot about children being at risk from Internet predators.

Millie22 Thu 28-Feb-19 16:32:53

Sounds to me like she was just being friendly.

ginny Thu 28-Feb-19 15:59:53

Ah well then. Can’ t really blame the lady for reading what is on her own ‘phone / tablet/ IPad.

kircubbin2000 Thu 28-Feb-19 15:32:02

It must have been DD?. I don't post personal stuff.

Anja Thu 28-Feb-19 15:11:19

Check if you have a ‘mutual’ friend. If not then your privacy settings need sorting.

MissAdventure Thu 28-Feb-19 14:39:32

Someone has put the info out there, so you can't blame people for browsing it.

Maggiemaybe Thu 28-Feb-19 14:28:12

Gone too far with what? If you put information out there, you can’t blame people for seeing it!

RosieLeah Thu 28-Feb-19 14:08:56

If you don't want everyone to know, why put it on Facebook? Perhaps you need to change your settings to 'private'.

MawBroon Thu 28-Feb-19 14:08:34

She may know your DD/DIL.
How else would she have known?

kircubbin2000 Thu 28-Feb-19 14:07:14

Talking to a lady down at the shops. She apparently lives in the street behind me although I didn't know her name before.
She asked me how is your grandson x enjoying his change of school? How did you know about that I asked. Saw it on Facebook she said. Now I feel as if I have been stalked!How can people be so nosy?