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To think that GN would be better moderated by older people?

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trisher Mon 04-Mar-19 13:18:59

I have spent a lifetime in political debate and other discussions. I think one of the requirements of such discussions is a certain robustness and an ability to use language. But GN is apparently moderated by the snowflake generation who see anything posted that is reported by anyone as controversial, and although they can't delete it, because it doesn't contravene the guidelines, they send out warnings. I think older people moderating the site would do so with more flexibility and less response to those who constantly report. I have had many accusations thrown at me about my politics which I haven't and won't report. So let's have some older moderators on this site who won't find controversial posts threatening.

varian Tue 05-Mar-19 18:58:31

The main difference between them is that MN are more tolerant of swearing.

Cherrytree59 Tue 05-Mar-19 18:23:07

Carigransnet I have a vision of GN and MN crew all sitting together in the same HQ office sharing ginger biscuits.
BTW the MN crew seem a feisty lot
Am I way off the mark??? grin

GrannyGravy13 Tue 05-Mar-19 18:10:45

trisher I agree with your post.

I would never ask for a post to be deleted unless it was deeply offence to another poster, or a post to which I had responded had been deleted and, therefore my post became irrelevant.

Asking for a post to be deleted just because you do not agree with the opinions contained therein just shuts down debate.

If I am found guilty of any of the above I hope someone would point it out to me in a polite and reasoned way.

trisher Tue 05-Mar-19 17:59:56

Cari thanks for your explanation. Could you please tell me why the messages I receive when I am notified that a post will be deleted always mention a number of posters, if the number is not relevant? And could you explain why I was issued with a "warning" when my post did not contravene guidelines although a number of posters had reported it? You see much as I like GN if its policy is only to scrutinise when posts are reported it does lead to a culture of reporting by some, not because the post is necessarily offensive but because they disagree with the views stated. The result is, because those of us who believe in free speech don't report posts, a rather unbalanced and frankly boring set of diatribes from a limited number of posters. It is ruining threads on GN and limiting posts I believe.

CariGransnet (GNHQ) Tue 05-Mar-19 17:33:33

To address a few concerns:

- The number of complaints we get about a particular post makes no difference to the way we view it. All reports are treated on their own merits

- We are a post-moderated site so we rely on you to report things you think we should look at. Reporting something DOESN’T mean it will be deleted (no matter how many people report it!) It does mean we will take a look

- We won’t delete a post because it contains swearing (with a couple of exceptions...you can read more about those in our netiquette section) We are aware that everyone’s tolerance for bad language differs but we are all grown ups grin

- We have very few rules and really do prefer not to delete posts. Robust debate (argument...a rose by any other name etc stdavids and yes I realise that’s a daffodil but I’m working with what I have) is fine (of course) as long as it doesn’t resort to personal attacks

- (to jalima) nope, no objections to being called mature. Or immature. Happily both

Framilode Tue 05-Mar-19 17:09:57

Miss Adventure I saw the spelling correction on the thread for new posters. It was that that I thought particularly mean.

I am all for robust debate as long as is doesn't get personal.

trisher Tue 05-Mar-19 16:51:53

Just don't think their Grans should!
janeainsworth for the most part I don't object to my posts being deleted if they breech guidelines (although I would prefer them to remain) I do understand even if I disagree. The thing that really got me was being "warned" because some people had complained even though the post didn't breech guidelines. I think there also may be a disproportionate number of deletions at weekends when the moderators are probably younger staff covering, and anxious to show what a good job they are doing.

sodapop Tue 05-Mar-19 16:44:37

MissA gringrin

MissAdventure Tue 05-Mar-19 16:39:05

I'm sure they all swear like troopers! wink

Gonegirl Tue 05-Mar-19 16:33:58

I wonder. Is the GNHQ office a totally swear-free zone? No occasional "bloody", or even, (heaven forefend!), the actual (preposterous!!! hmm ) "eff" word?

MissAdventure Tue 05-Mar-19 16:25:29

I don't think its for members to take it upon themselves, so it's lucky I'm not admin!

sodapop Tue 05-Mar-19 16:22:48

Different strokes for different folks, this would annoy me but not offend. We all have different levels of tolerance.

MissAdventure Tue 05-Mar-19 16:22:07

I was thinking, when I read the thread asking if our mums would have liked gransnet; my mum wouldn't have passed the standards set by the self elected grammar, punctuation and spelling police. sad
No wonder some people are nervous about posting.

Anniebach Tue 05-Mar-19 16:13:40

Being on the receiving end of having my spelling errors corrected , often, it is offensive, i am use to it but it could deeply upset a new poster

MissAdventure Tue 05-Mar-19 16:07:58

I do.
I think its the height of bad manners, particularly when a new poster is met with someone pointing out their errors.
If it were me posting for the first time, it would also be the last.

sodapop Tue 05-Mar-19 16:05:34

That's annoying and ill mannered Framilode but not offensive, just don't respond to her.
I don't think it warrants intervention by the moderators.

Framilode Tue 05-Mar-19 15:30:29

I do find someone who spends their time correcting the spelling and grammar of other posters offensive, even when asked not to do so.

I think the mods should intervene with this.

janeainsworth Tue 05-Mar-19 15:29:57

Is there any evidence that posts are deleted even though they don’t actually breach guidelines, but because people complain about them? Have you been told this by GNHQ Trisher?

I too would prefer that offensive posts are left in situ. Then we can all see which posters cause the most offence, for what they are.
Perhaps if people knew that their vitriol was there in perpetuity they might moderate their own language, rather than just playing the game of seeing how far they can go and how many posts they can get deleted.

Elegran Tue 05-Mar-19 15:05:19

Not all the posts that are complained about get deleted, notentirelyallhere. The person on moderator duty at GN looks at them first. Some seem to be passed as OK and other not-so-nasty ones get the chop.

For instance, a thread which looks to me suspiciously as though it is by a familiar hand apparently hasn't (so far) merited deletion.

Anniebach Tue 05-Mar-19 14:48:14

Age has nothing to do with moderating a forum, there are bullies and offensive people in all ages, there are the opposite in all ages .

notentirelyallhere Tue 05-Mar-19 14:38:17

Thanks for explaining that, Trisher, I hadn't understood that people complaining could get posts deleted. I agree with you in that case and it makes a bit of a nonsense of moderating and guidelines. I quite like having moderators because I have always thought that they kept the lid on the worst offenders. I suppose they feel that they can't comment but I'd like to know what the moderators themselves think.

trisher Tue 05-Mar-19 13:55:26

Oh POGS I knew there was something we could agree about. It seems strange but thanks for a great post. smile

POGS Tue 05-Mar-19 12:57:43

I have always said I dislike threads and posts being deleted as I believe ' If you say it you own it ' .

I think deleting posts actually ' aids and abets ' a poster to get out of what they said and other posters cannot make their own informed opinion of what was said.

I prefer to have the opportunity to respond to a poster that I may think has been personal or has crossed the line rather than GNHQ think on my behalf whether the post was personal / Against Forum Guidelines or not. I find the term '' Against Forum Guidelines ' is in the eye of the beholder and at times I think a post remaining on a thread is worse than one that has been removed .

I do however accept that GNHQ has a difficult job to try and get it right .

trisher Tue 05-Mar-19 12:41:42

notentirelyallhere I agree that some of the posts on the politics threads may be regarded as nasty, but the point is I don't report them because I believe in free speech, whereas others do report things and get them deleted and even get people issued with warnings because they don't breech the guidelines. The point is that what this results in is moderation by offense reporting, which means that if you disagree with something report it, and the poster will be warned off, whereas others can post anything. It's why the politics threads become repetetive statements made by the same posters. I would tell you what I said but that would be cross threading which is a GN offense.

notentirelyallhere Tue 05-Mar-19 12:32:08

I can't imagine what you want to say Trisher that you think you're not allowed to. I stay away from the political threads because they're so nasty and often underhanded with it, the current thread welcoming Brexit is a good example. I've been involved in politics and people can certainly get hot under the collar with those of a different opinion but that doesn't make it right.
From what I've seen and experienced, the GN moderators do a good job of steering between opinion and insults. Being rude isn't robust, it's rudeness.