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The Sussexes & Hypocrisy

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Sparklefizz Fri 05-Apr-19 10:04:41

Prince Harry said earlier in the week that social media is as addictive for kids as drugs and alcohol. They can be bullied and become anxious and depressed.

Instagram seems to be the worst apparently, although he didn't mention that by name.

However, AIBU to expect Harry and Meghan with all their virtue-signalling, to be less hypocritical? The Sussexes have just set up an Instagram account and already have over 3 million followers apparently !!! Is this not blatant hypocrisy?

Before this, Harry's topic was a climate change lecture to young people while he and Meghan zipped about in private jets for her baby shower and his trip back for Valentine's Day.

I have always been very fond of Harry but since he has become New Agey and got on various soapboxes, they both have had a marvellous chance to practise what they preach..... but are not doing it.

I'm disappointed in him.

Anniebach Tue 09-Apr-19 12:06:28

Doubt the royals are interested in making money from Marmalade.

gillybob Tue 09-Apr-19 12:55:50

I think the royals are probably making money from almost everything they use. Of course M will have to have the same pram/buggy as the Clooneys .

Anniebach Tue 09-Apr-19 13:10:30

I don’t accept Royal Warrents are up for sale

maddyone Tue 09-Apr-19 13:26:55

I don’t think the royals are paid by companies awarded the royal warrant, although I find any specific information one way or the other. I think the companies receiving the royal warrant will feel that this endorses their product sufficiently without the need to pay the royal family. In fact I was under the impression that the royals try to avoid aligning themselves to any business, I thought that was why Sophie had to give up her job shortly after marrying Edward.

maddyone Tue 09-Apr-19 13:27:30

.....although I can’t find....

Joyfulnanna Tue 09-Apr-19 20:49:12

I don't like to criticise him or Megan. Being in the spotlight is bound to have all and sundry watching, waiting and judging them. They are privileged but still just a couple in a relationship. He wants to please her like all men who are relatively newly married. The shock will come when the baby is here and Megan puts baby first. I wish them longevity but personally I don't think it will last.

Mrspn19479 Thu 11-Apr-19 17:08:36

They are entitled to do as they please after all PH isn't likely to be reigning over us. The fact that the Duchess is having a home birth does worry me. The only reason being she is an "elderly mother soon to have her first child" in my day that would have flagged up problems. But maybe midwifery and obstetrics have changed in the last few decades. I hope future mothers listen to their doctors and not the duchess. Having a party and a holiday pales into insignificance in comparison they are incredibly wealthy after all.

Anniebach Thu 11-Apr-19 17:35:04

They have announced they are not going to disclose anything about the birth and want time as a family. A sure way to draw attention from the press, keep them guessing .

merlotgran Thu 11-Apr-19 17:39:23

Must be a celeb thing to make an announcement that you're not going to make an announcement. hmm

Anniebach Thu 11-Apr-19 17:55:04

Must be merlot , seems they will not release news of the birth until they have ‘family time’,

gillybob Thu 11-Apr-19 17:57:59

I was thinking on similar lines merlot.

They obviously have no problem taking tax payers money to help keep them in the lap of luxury, Courting the press when it suits, then expecting absolute privacy . They want their royal cake and eat it these two.

Framilode Thu 11-Apr-19 18:08:05

In exchange for deference, privilege, wealth and status a certain amount of privacy has to go.

I am not saying they should have a photocall after the birth or even release the arrangements for the birth, but a simple statement giving the sex of the baby and saying everything went well seems, to me, suitable.

You can't have all the benefits of being royal without giving something in return..

Bridgeit Thu 11-Apr-19 18:10:13

Do we really believe that they are sitting at home scheming & plotting up ways to generate the maximum interest by stating that there will be no ‘disclosures ‘.
Why such negativity towards them? Why assume that there are ‘ulterior motives ‘ ?
Even if they could be bothered what would they gain from such behaviour ? I don’t get the suggestions being presented here ?

merlotgran Thu 11-Apr-19 18:30:05

Bridgeit, They have made a formal announcement that there will be no announcement! I don't blame Meghan for wanting to avoid the media circus but formally announcing the birth is what the royals do.

Tradition!

Bridgeit Thu 11-Apr-19 18:33:40

Ahh as the song goes - For the times they are a changing-
Nowt wrong with that.

Anniebach Thu 11-Apr-19 18:43:33

If they want the privileges which come with being a Windor , if they want to live in property owned by the country, they need to remember the many royalists who are waiting for news of the birth.

I am thankful we will be spared days of crowded pavements
Press and public waiting being on tv, but they need to remember it’s a two way relationship

Anniebach Thu 11-Apr-19 18:45:02

Difficult for Buck House, they can’t put the announcement at the gate .

Sparklefizz Thu 11-Apr-19 19:09:16

I think it's just Meghan always wanting to buck the system and do things her way and exactly the opposite to whatever has been done in the past.

Sparklefizz Thu 11-Apr-19 20:03:51

What doesn't make sense is that now they want privacy over the baby yet only last week they opened Instagram and other media accounts. They can't have it both ways.

Anniebach Thu 11-Apr-19 20:32:43

It’s sure way to get more attention .

And living in Frogmore is certaintly not doing the opposite to what’s been done in the past, nor is having titles .

Bridgeit Thu 11-Apr-19 20:39:09

Do the Queen’s subject still await news of aRoyal birth??

Bridgeit Thu 11-Apr-19 20:39:50

Subject’s

merlotgran Thu 11-Apr-19 20:47:26

How on earth are they going to keep it a secret? Somebody will give the game away.

Are the midwives etc., going to arrive cowering under a blanket?

Is the birthing pool already in situ?

Will Doria arrive disguised as the gardener?

Has she already had it?

Bridgeit Thu 11-Apr-19 20:51:48

Perhaps the midwife has been stowed away until needed.......... perhaps this could be the story line for a new Fairytale

maryeliza54 Thu 11-Apr-19 20:54:51

They are being pathetic - if it’s to be born at home, they are not exactly going to be besieged are they? We’ll be footing the bill ( already are) for all their security. They are sounding more and more like the entitled priveleged narcissitc self absorbed idiots they are.