Urge your friends to ween off their help as soon as they can.
The NDN I had eventually had carers calling twice a day. She was such a nasty disagreeable person and had a long list of careers who were ' barred' from the house.
I have to admit that a put a silent service on my phone so it didn't ring during the night.. because she would ring because she'd messed the bed and wanted cleaning up etc. I am a trained nurse but I wasn't willing to do this. I also had calls to unblock the toilet. I had to tell her to get a plumber. She might have been an elderly lady but she was well able to orchestrate her affairs from her arm chair.
To go through chemo therapy or choose not to?
Have any of you got all electric cars? Pros and cons please.