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Do I go NC?

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Urmstongran Fri 26-Apr-19 08:36:37

Well what a strange thing to say to you after all these years. I assume she has her reasons but is reluctant to enlighten you. Very weird behaviour in my opinion.

I’d be wanting to ask her for details otherwise I’d be just worrying about it all.
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Grandad1943 Fri 26-Apr-19 08:25:21

Well, if anyone told me they did not like my wife, I would very quickly inform them that if they do not like the person who has been closest to me for so many years, then they cannot be any part of my life.

A friend is someone who accepts you and all that surrounds you for what it is. Therfore, if they do not like or accept any part of that, then for me it would be, bye-bye.

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DanniRae Fri 26-Apr-19 07:28:30

I agree with mumofmadboys.

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BlueBelle Fri 26-Apr-19 07:27:57

Troubled caused not user caused

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BlueBelle Fri 26-Apr-19 07:27:33

Ignore it, not worth the user caused Be the bigger person

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mumofmadboys Fri 26-Apr-19 07:04:57

Ignore what she has said and carry on as before. Be polite when you see her but don't go out of your way to arrange anything. This would be my advice

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BoadiceaJones Fri 26-Apr-19 06:39:12

A close member of the family hates my DH. She says she doesn't like or trust him, but won't tell me why. We've been together almost 20 years. She has a spiteful streak and our relationship has always been a bit rocky. What do I do?

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