I agree with what Greta 8 has said..
I have been retired some years now, but worked with/for an alcoholic,,,not good...
wondering if "having a drink problem" does or can descend (!) into alcoholism.. if so,, I would be scared,,
I used to drink a lot, when working with my boss, easy to get carried along, I then decided that if I had alcohol in the house, I could easily have a drink problem, cos I would not leave it.... so cut it out.
I think it is very hard to face up to problems
hugs, good thoughts and prayers for you and your husband
oh I wouldn`t say anything yet, to dil, wait and see, and examine yourself?