Am I being selfish.

Enjoy your room, they probably don't want you wandering round the house to find the loo in the middle of the night in case you get mistaken for Father Christmas!

Keep the nice for sure - younger people sleep anywhere with ease - but do check with your daughter and make sure that you are in your usual room as the same thought re space may have crossed her mind without thinking about the temperature and loo.

Just enjoy it.

Great! We are going to stay 3 days as she will be sick of us by then! 3 women in the kitchen won't work.

Ditto what everyone else has said. ?

Don't feel guilty kircubbin200 your daughter has organised her guests as kittye says and you should stay in the room allocated to you. There are some benefits which come with age so make the most of it and enjoy yourself.

It would surely embarrass your son and DiL if you gave up the cosy room for them. Grannies need to be near the bathroom and you will need a hideout for that afternoon nap.

Your son and daughter have probably discussed it already and decided mum should have the best room and rightly so. Enjoy it!

Keep the comfy room for sure!

Isn't it up to your daughter where she chooses to put her guests? Enjoy time with your family

Your not being selfish, you sound lovely. Keep the better room as the young don’t notice things like cold etc and they would probably feel guilty letting you sleep in there.
Go enjoy your time but do think about yourself and what you need to be comfortable. Have a good time.

If you asked you son and his wife if they would prefer to sleep in the nice room and you sleep in the cold downstairs one on a put up bed would they say yes? I would like to think they would show you a bit more courtesy and there has to be some perks getting older ha ha.

Absolutely no way would I feel guilty. I could sleep anywhere when I was younger but now I like my comfort.

Why on earth should you feel even remotely guilty? To my mind this almost feeling guilty for the sake of it.

You are older, less flexible and need your sleep. When my DF used to come and stay for Christmas, AD would always give her room to him and sleep on the floor in the study, didn't even need asking. Wouldn't have had it any other way.

no, keep your nice cosy room

Heavens no ! Young people can sleep anywhere - you have no reason to offer them the "good room". Enjoy your Christmas with your family .

Another here who thinks you should be on the comfy bed. Enjoy.

Lord no - there has to be some benefit to ageing! Lie back and enjoy it!

Definitely not - why would you? !

No. They are younger, will sleep better than you would on a put up bed, and are less likely to need a nearby bathroom in the night.
Think of it as doing them a favour because if you sleep well and are relaxed and cheerful you will be better company.