Stories like this make me sick !
18 months ago I had a TIA, not the crippling strokes we read about, but nevertheless a warning as I am at high risk.
I applied for AA ( short-term until I felt better ) because I was getting taxis instead of the bus because of suffering nausea and lack of confidence, which I knew wouldn't last though the confidence isn't as it should be yet.
I was turned down because I was able to feed myself !!
Rather than fester indoors for months I was making the effort getting out and about but spent a fortune on taxis during that time besides fighting my way out of going into a depression. Dizzy for weeks after as well and just generally on pins in case I had another mini-stroke or worse.
However, over the months I'd been determined to get myself back on track again and because of my 80% recovery I'd have rang the DWP to tell them I no longer needed help because I'd have been scared of being reported as looking " normal " and would have worried.
That 20% is still my lack of confidence but I force myself to overcome it.
When I hear of the above it just makes me furious knowing that it's just a fraction of what goes on !
Does it pay to be honest I ask myself-----in my case, YES !!