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Gemini1789 Mon 14-Oct-19 22:04:27

I’ve just come to bed early leaving the OH watching ‘The Dublin Murders ‘ . He said it had a good write up. How many horrible phrases and unpleasant words were in the first 10 minutes ? I kept going till about half way but really ! Do we have to listen to that ? Well the answer is no. We don’t have to. We can switch off or leave the room .
AIBU ?

sarahellenwhitney Tue 15-Oct-19 18:04:20

Linbrikat
Think you may be off course ?

TrendyNannie6 Tue 15-Oct-19 17:53:03

I haven’t actually seen the Dublin murders but I have noticed much more swearing on tv , I don’t really take any notice to be honest, sadly it’s the way of the world, it goes straight over my head,there’s a lot more disturbing things in the world going on right now than swearing, if I was offended I would turn off

grandtanteJE65 Tue 15-Oct-19 16:03:53

I would tend to agree with OP. Just because a subject is unpleasant doesn't mean that it has to be discussed in crude, obscene or rude language.

I haven't seen the programme in question, but I do feel that there is far to much offensive language being used everywhere.

I am capable of expressing myself without swear words or obscene expressions, so I find it reasonable to wish others would do so too.

sweetcakes Tue 15-Oct-19 15:39:17

Just watched it thought it was pretty good so far, bad language does not bother me and I've watched worst if you don't like it don't watch it.

SalsaQueen Tue 15-Oct-19 13:58:30

Gemini1789 .... Swearing per se doesn't bother me - however, if someone swore AT me, that might be different grin

Ginny42 Tue 15-Oct-19 13:57:46

If the language isn't in the book, does it mean that the producer judges it necessary to draw the viewing public? Viewing figures is why it's included. Sad situation if that's so.

I couldn't cope with anything about child murders, so I won't be watching, with or without bad language, but from what's reported in this thread I do hope the man in the white shirt gets his comeuppance at some point.

Alexa Tue 15-Oct-19 13:52:31

Spabbygirl you are so right! It's the tone of voice and bodylanguage that offend and harm, not words.

True , a word itself can cause a frisson . However what were once called 'swear' words are so normal now in many social contexts that there it's no use trying to turn that tide, and better to try to accept the inevitable.

EthelJ Tue 15-Oct-19 13:38:35

I wouldn't say it's lazy writing either I think it's just a realistic portrayal. I don't use that language but I know that many people do, just in their normal everyday conversation.

EthelJ Tue 15-Oct-19 13:35:02

There was some bad language in it but I'm afraid that's life. I don't generally get upset by bad language on TV. They are just words.

Annaram1 Tue 15-Oct-19 13:30:49

I didn't really like the swearing in the program either. It is a good story though and I will be watching tonight. I did not like the white shirted man saying sexist things to the woman and I would have liked her to have reported him. These days he wold not have dared.

gillyknits Tue 15-Oct-19 13:00:25

I think the whole point of the policeman in the white shirt was to emphasise that he didn’t think much of women detectives in general. I feel he’s about to be proved very wrong.

Anja Tue 15-Oct-19 12:54:16

Come on! It was an excellent drama. I’m sure the odd swear word was not inserted by those ‘who couldn’t think of an intellectual alternative’ or they wouldn’t be adapting books as screen plays for a living.

Bah! Humbug!

GeorgyGirl Tue 15-Oct-19 12:49:24

I also do not like bad language, it is unnecessary and can be offensive. It just seems to be everywhere and on lots of tv programmes, trying to make it the norm, a sad sign of the times again, standards being dropped. Swear words used to be used by people who couldn't think of an intelligent alternative.

Sara65 Tue 15-Oct-19 12:39:52

Didn’t watch it, but I would probably have felt the same, I think it’s totally overdone sometimes.

Bridgeit Tue 15-Oct-19 12:39:30

It’s lazy writing IMO, although sometimes it adds to the emotion being portrayed.

Nvella Tue 15-Oct-19 12:22:30

No - didn’t notice it either - enjoyed the episode

Mapleleaf Tue 15-Oct-19 12:20:27

Yes, there is some bad language, and I'm definitely not a lover of it, but the storyline is gripping so I will be watching the second episode. I agree though, that it can be a bit much sometimes.

newnanny Tue 15-Oct-19 11:51:59

I have taped it but not seen it yet.

pinkquartz Tue 15-Oct-19 11:38:12

Well the book is better!

Tana French has written many really excellent crime novels and I don't remember swearing in them.

But the TV people do like to "spice up"

usually making everything worse.
though I think swearing is normal for some situations.

I would ignore it or switch off if it bothers you.

grannytotwins Tue 15-Oct-19 11:33:04

I’ve recorded it as I’m reading the book at the moment and want to finish it first. There’s not bad language in the book, so why do they have to add it into the television series?

Linbrikat Tue 15-Oct-19 11:23:00

Summerstorm, it depends what part of the sentence is being used. If John and Mary are the subject of the sentence, then John would say "Mary and I went for a walk this morning", but if they're the direct object then John would say "She gave Mary and me a lovely breakfast this morning". If you just remove "Mary and" from each sentence, you'll see that it makes sense.

sarahellenwhitney Tue 15-Oct-19 11:14:38

Gemini1779.
Count me in. Must be my age grinWhy do those who turn out what could be hmm very interesting programmes feel the need to use language totally irrelevant to what the programme is about. For example in one recent drama I watched which involved police intervention quote 'the subject when questioned became **** aggressive'.
Why the need for ******?

Jaycee5 Tue 15-Oct-19 10:59:04

I thought it was a good programme. I'd rather that child murder wasn't the central point of virtually every crime drama (having replaced serial rape) but it was still a good programme. I thought the senior officer thinking that his abusive comments to the female officer was 'just craic' and realising that he might be in trouble for it and the way low level sexism is shown was very realistic. I didn't find any of it offensive and will watch the rest of it.

jenni123 Tue 15-Oct-19 10:55:07

I enjoyed it and hopefully will watch next episode tonight

Summerstorm Tue 15-Oct-19 10:32:08

I’m obviously in the minority here but agree with the OP I don’t like bad language. Don’t see the need for it. Find it also irritating when people (tv presenters, that I feel should know better) refer to me and whoever. I was always taught that it should be whoever and I. Silly in the scheme of things but isn’t grammar even taught in schools nowadays