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The Lady Garden

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Buffybee Sat 25-Jan-20 09:07:48

Apparently, The Body Shop are sponsoring a display this year at the Chelsea Flower Show, as a feminist space, with plants and sculptures echoing the 'curves of the female form'.
What they have come up with, is a large sculpture of 'women's bits' with a few plants in front.
Call me old fashioned!
But I think this sort of thing is offensive and pathetic and am surprised that the RHS is 'enthusiastic and supportive' about it.

Greeneyedgirl Sun 26-Jan-20 13:35:57

?? Stella14

Stella14 Sun 26-Jan-20 13:17:13

I like the idea. The female form ( all aspects) have never been celebrated enough. I can’t imagine why anyone would find it offensive!

Fennel Sun 26-Jan-20 12:56:20

If they let it get overgrown with brambles it would be more realistic.

Greeneyedgirl Sun 26-Jan-20 12:50:46

Is the "internal"on display. Looks like vulva and vaginal orifice to me?

MissAdventure Sun 26-Jan-20 12:36:57

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and the lady garden is just a representation of the real thing.

Its a shame to call anything on a human body repulsive, I think.

Janiepops Sun 26-Jan-20 12:29:22

I agree Skysthelimit!

The human form is generally very lovely, ie, Michelangelo’s David, Or Venus de Milo, but internally,the female bits look repulsive.... ?, can smell repulsive, breeding ground for germs, way too much surplus material, not a single redeeming feature in fact.Is CFS the proper place for this talentless bilge? Take it to the Tate modern, and leave,beautiful,fragrant gardens alone!

sarahellenwhitney Sun 26-Jan-20 12:29:16

Depends on your sense of grinhumour.

Nightsky2 Sun 26-Jan-20 12:11:12

It’s big?

I wonder what Charles and Camilla will make of it, that’s if they go, a fit of the giggles I would think. The Queen won’t blink an eye I’m sure. A few years ago this would have been obscene, how things have changed.

Skysthelimit Sun 26-Jan-20 11:54:25

Maybe the RHS can explain why a vagina is being displayed in the manner and detail as reported? Women don’t usually spend their gardening day sunbathing the interior of their vagina. So, there has to be a story behind the decision to display such a provocative and dominant sculpture. It will, no doubt, overtake press and visitor interest in the gardens, the flowers and horticultural prowess which the Chelsea Flower Show is famous for. Is the RHS choosing to become sensationalistic? Or has it been forced upon them?

Horatia Sun 26-Jan-20 11:50:57

NanKate Great comment.

Mollygo Sun 26-Jan-20 11:44:26

I wonder if this program will mention the Body Shop garden, or how much prominence it’ll get on the TV coverage? I won’t be watching or visiting so who knows?

frankie74 Sun 26-Jan-20 11:43:52

SirChenjin..."it gives a bit of an edge" grin...or maybe "a bit of an 'edge..." ?

Greeneyedgirl Sun 26-Jan-20 11:42:55

Not on if GN is representative they haven't Luckyfour - apparently shock

LuckyFour Sun 26-Jan-20 11:10:47

Seeing a few female body bits is not going to cause this 72 year old pensioner to have a heart attack, suggested by Vampirequeen. Modern day pensioners have pretty much seen it all.

rowanflower0 Sun 26-Jan-20 11:09:29

Was thinking of going to Chelsea - for the first time - but if that is an example of whats on offer - perhaps not!

GagaJo Sun 26-Jan-20 11:08:08

The Queen does so have a bottom. She has an annus horribilis. Poor old duck.

Kellie40 Sun 26-Jan-20 11:03:01

I’m with you, I think it’s totally unnecessary, it’s a flower show not a gynaecologists office

MissAdventure Sun 26-Jan-20 10:51:08

Why would anyone think the queen wouldn't want to see it, though?
I'm sure she doesn't need protection.

gagsy Sun 26-Jan-20 10:51:02

Mad! It makes you weary!

ReadyMeals Sun 26-Jan-20 10:50:27

Greeneyedgirl don't you know the Queen doesn't have a bottom? Does anyone remember that comedy sketch? Was it Monty Python or Peter Cook? Arguing that the Queen isn't like us and doesn't have a bottom or go to the toilet

Greeneyedgirl Sun 26-Jan-20 10:49:59

I have worked as a midwife and I think of female genitalia as any other part of our functioning bodies. I find attitudes towards female genitalia on here quite puzzling.
I do think cynically that Body Shop is just hoping for such reaction. Any publicity is good publicity......

Merryweather Sun 26-Jan-20 10:49:35

I'm confused by the skeletor looking creature carved above.
Why would the designer think her majesty would want to see this exhibit?

I'm very confused.
Just why????

MissAdventure Sun 26-Jan-20 10:48:05

Well, its just as well to be familiar with your bits, because these areas are susceptible to a number of conditions, including cancer.

That's even more scary.

Annana Sun 26-Jan-20 10:47:36

I also feel uncomfortable about the design and not because of some old-fashioned sense of virtue but it does seem to reduce the value and image of a Woman.
However, I read somewhere that a certain hairstyle of a Japanese Geisha had similar connotations but , I guess, in that situation it might have served a specific purpose!

Growing0ldDisgracefully Sun 26-Jan-20 10:45:04

Good grief, as someone who's never felt the need to inspect my nether regions with a mirror, that's actually quite scary looking. Enough to make small children have nightmares. Should make for some challenging conversations between some parents and small children I should imagine.