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Any words or phrases that you can't stand?

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Dinahmo Mon 10-Feb-20 18:05:23

An early phrase that I loathe is "can I get" but a more recent one is the word curate which is used in place of collect, or select etc. Recent examples:

The Guardian" the BBC's failure to curate some news event responsibly"

A description of someone's collection of china pig money boxes (once given away free) as being "carefully curated"

A delicatessen which provides "a perfectly curated picnic"

To my mind the misuse of the word devalues the work of museum and gallery curators.

Manmar2 Thu 13-Feb-20 14:16:39

Diana, Princess of Wales
Ending sentences with a questioning tone

eazybee Thu 13-Feb-20 14:04:34

Princess Diana: she never was nor would have been; she was Diana, Princess of Wales.
Use of initials instead of names: BJ, SJ, JS, DC, PP etc. (strangely, very rarely was Corbyn referred to by his initials).

Callistemon Thu 13-Feb-20 12:32:57

Precisely rosenoir, it's a dog not a furbaby. Even a puppy is a puppy, not a baby!!

rosenoir Thu 13-Feb-20 12:13:24

winterwhiteA fur baby is a pet, usually a dog.

Dinahmo Thu 13-Feb-20 11:53:43

As well as "rocked" - nailed it and smashed it - as so often heard on the Voice and other "talent" shows.

SisterAct Thu 13-Feb-20 11:52:04

At this moment in time !
It’s at this moment or at this time

winterwhite Thu 13-Feb-20 11:35:35

Come back on here - fascinating thread - and find I've been challenged over 'discombobulated' (you're welcome!)

But what does fur baby mean?

And what's so very wrong with 'hun' and 'babe'?? confused Hun isn't meant to be written down of course but I think I use it quite often, say in a vague way to DH or one of the children. And DH similarly says 'babe' to me. I hadn't realised they were so frowned on. Perhaps time to pull up our conversations socks. grin

Grammaretto Thu 13-Feb-20 11:07:42

I'm sure you have already had this but yesterday a woman serving me in a tea shop said "no worries" as she took my order.
I actually queried what the worries might be, but got no reply. It must be an automatic response. She was pre-programmed.

Nanny27 Thu 13-Feb-20 10:58:23

Every time we have a thread like this, which I love btw, I post that mischievous pronounced"mischeeveous" sounds dreadful to me. I don't think anyone on GN has ever agreed or disagreed so must I assume I'm on my own with this one?

GrammaH Thu 13-Feb-20 08:39:25

I was reminded of another pet hate as I skimmed my newsfeed this morning.."rocked" as in "she rocked a pink flowered mini dress". What on earth does that actually mean??

CocoPops Thu 13-Feb-20 06:00:09

"I feel your pain".

Alishka Wed 12-Feb-20 20:54:55

Currently it"s 'kids'
And every time I hear it I remember our elocution teacher telling us that a kid is a baby goatgrin
Mind you, she also disapproved of the word 'bus' instead of 'omnibus'
Yes, I'm really that oldgringringrin

Winniewit Wed 12-Feb-20 20:20:12

Very much so
Mindset
Hubster
Gobsmacked

Callistemon Wed 12-Feb-20 18:58:54

What's wrong with that?
Having had my ankles bitten by a friend's small dog with needle sharp teeth wasn't pleasant but it seems a good description.

ananimous Wed 12-Feb-20 18:43:07

Gee tough crowd...

wink

Hate the term "ankle-biters"

Wheniwasyourage Wed 12-Feb-20 17:57:09

Suck it up, which I find a disgusting expression.

Wheniwasyourage Wed 12-Feb-20 17:52:33

Five-year anniversary - no it isn't, it's the fifth anniversary.

Even worse is the five month anniversary!!!

I like the abbreviations on GN, and I think that the strikethrough can be funny. So there.

rosenoir Wed 12-Feb-20 17:48:17

Abbreviations on here,have you really not got time to type the whole word!

Strikethrough, either say it or dont.

GrammaH Wed 12-Feb-20 17:37:43

"I'm on it"
The word "snug" when used to describe a small sitting room
"It is what it is"
"Back in the day"
"Can I get"
"Hubby/hubster"
"Wifey/little woman/The wife"
And plenty more!!

Hutcho Wed 12-Feb-20 17:04:52

'hotting up'
'try and' instead of 'try to'
bespoke - usually used to justify high prices
likeminded
the overuse of 'amazing'

sodapop Wed 12-Feb-20 16:36:50

Not heard that one Witzend what does it mean ?

fluttERBY123 Wed 12-Feb-20 16:36:05

Think of so as a bit like alors in French. One criterion, several criteria, likewise one phenomenon, several phenomena. I started making list of people on tv who should have known and didn't but got bored. The shop opens at 12 am, pm? That's midnight either way. It probably opens at 12 noon.

soldiersailor Wed 12-Feb-20 16:31:35

The use of the word 'impact' instead of affect, which I assume must be because so many people these days don't understand the difference between affect or effect.
And I don't care for the the word 'ongoing'! Where on earth did THAT come from? I'm sure it didn't exist when I left school nearly 60 years ago when we used the simple word 'continuing'. I'd love to know how you might use it in the past tense... 'Onwent' perhaps??
I also strongly agree with the comments about starting a reply with 'So', regularly to be heard on BBC Radio 4 on the Today Programme, usually by the so-called 'woke' (aaaargh!!) bunch. A synonym of 'so' is 'therefore' which would sound very odd if they were obliged to use that instead.

Happysexagenarian Wed 12-Feb-20 15:58:57

My pet hate is people beginning every sentence with 'So....'. I watched Pointless recently and every contestant did it several times.
Also MANY of the aforementioned language horrors.

Beswitched Wed 12-Feb-20 15:45:00

People on programmes such as Location Location Location talking about the 'property' instead of 'the house'.