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Any words or phrases that you can't stand?

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Dinahmo Mon 10-Feb-20 18:05:23

An early phrase that I loathe is "can I get" but a more recent one is the word curate which is used in place of collect, or select etc. Recent examples:

The Guardian" the BBC's failure to curate some news event responsibly"

A description of someone's collection of china pig money boxes (once given away free) as being "carefully curated"

A delicatessen which provides "a perfectly curated picnic"

To my mind the misuse of the word devalues the work of museum and gallery curators.

duju Tue 11-Feb-20 18:30:32

Sorry, I always want to... I should of pre read my comments!

duju Tue 11-Feb-20 18:32:44

I’ve just made a contribution to this thread, & it’s highlighted with a pink background.
Have I posted correctly?

pollyperkins Tue 11-Feb-20 18:34:39

Yes your own post looks pink to you but not anyone else.

Blondiescot Tue 11-Feb-20 18:41:04

I genuinely don't mind Rainbow Bridge - I know the idea brings a lot of comfort to those of us who have lost beloved pets. I'm not religious and don't believe in a heaven, but if there was one, I'd want it to be full of animals rather than people!

duju Tue 11-Feb-20 18:55:25

Thank you pollyperkins....
I did not realize that as a first time poster, that the pink background was to indicate (to me) my own contribution.

tinaf1 Tue 11-Feb-20 19:57:00

Just thought of another phrase that really winds me up when something really bad happens on the news and the “ body” involved says lessons will be learnt .

Witzend Tue 11-Feb-20 20:05:18

Masses of the above.
I don’t get the objection to ‘bairns’ though - surely a good old Scots word? The Swedish word for ‘child’ is very similar to ‘bairn’ so presumably it came with the Vikings.

REEsearch instead of reSEARCH makes me cringe.

Ditto ‘I’m good’ in reply to ‘ How are you?’ or ‘Would you like...?’

optimist Tue 11-Feb-20 20:14:00

The generic "Thank You Driver" shouted at the end of a bus journey. Dont get me wrong of course we should thank people but this just sounds so insincere.

Doodledog Tue 11-Feb-20 20:30:58

Yes, when did that start? I don't remember it happening when I was a child, and on the whole they were probably more polite times, but now it would seem rude to get off the bus without a 'thank you'.

geraniam Tue 11-Feb-20 20:35:48

crazy H
I'm old enough to remember that 'lurgy' should be 'The Dreaded Lurgy' an expression used in The Goon Show.
Spike Milligan frequently had The Dreaded Lurgy.

Ngaio1 Tue 11-Feb-20 20:41:25

Hubby, overly, majorly, guys, basically, bubba, bubs, anything prefaced by "Gob" (foul word!), a brew, If that makes sense, babe, Hun, for free (It is "free"), like, sick to my stomach - you would not be sick to your elbow would you?

Alishka Tue 11-Feb-20 20:41:41

I loved the tree surgeon who could 'swing by' - conjures up delightful visions of a Tarzan-type fella - could do with one of thosewinkgrin

Janetashbolt Tue 11-Feb-20 20:51:46

Loathe "my bad". No you mean my mistake. I know language evolves but could it at least make sense?

Menopauselbitch Tue 11-Feb-20 22:19:29

Baby daddy
Texted ( makes me grind my teeth)
Bruh
Me instead of my
Discusting (don’t they have spell check

Bellanonna Tue 11-Feb-20 22:28:53

Why does texted make you grind your teeth Meno? Genuinely puzzled.

Doodledog Tue 11-Feb-20 22:34:36

Yes, my teeth itch when I hear 'text' in the past tense. 'He text me'. It makes no sense.

Another is 'tret' instead of 'treated'.

Bellanonna Tue 11-Feb-20 22:39:59

Glad you agree Doodledog. Text is a noun, to text is a verb,
texted is its past tense.

chocolatepudding Tue 11-Feb-20 22:58:08

I cannot understand people saying "one time" - surely they mean "once"?

Alexa Tue 11-Feb-20 22:59:08

Why do some people say 'floor' when they mean 'ground'?

Alexa Tue 11-Feb-20 23:01:50

'Literally' when it's not literally. 'Fantastic' when it's pleasant.

Bellanonna Tue 11-Feb-20 23:04:24

I dislike “Don’t get me wrong”.

MissAdventure Tue 11-Feb-20 23:07:01

I really don't like Rainbow Bridge, Furbabies, and Hun, but the rest I can ignore, even if they grate a bit.

Baloothefitz Wed 12-Feb-20 01:12:52

The abbreviations on gransnet.
My bad.
Gobsmacked.
No shit Sherlock.
Kids.
Discusting.
Hun.
Bless ya.

Nansnet Wed 12-Feb-20 04:49:57

'Setting boundaries' ...

I can't stand the term, when referring to grandparents. I don't mind its use when referring to children/teenagers, but it all seems rather derogatory when referring to grandparents. It's not a term I ever really came across until I came on GN, so I don't think it's a particularly British thing, is it? Thankfully, my 'boundaries' have not needed setting!grin

Googes41 Wed 12-Feb-20 06:48:15

It is what it is.
Ending a sentence with “at all”
He is tied up in a meeting!!
Bear with me