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Any words or phrases that you can't stand?

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Dinahmo Mon 10-Feb-20 18:05:23

An early phrase that I loathe is "can I get" but a more recent one is the word curate which is used in place of collect, or select etc. Recent examples:

The Guardian" the BBC's failure to curate some news event responsibly"

A description of someone's collection of china pig money boxes (once given away free) as being "carefully curated"

A delicatessen which provides "a perfectly curated picnic"

To my mind the misuse of the word devalues the work of museum and gallery curators.

Alishka Tue 11-Feb-20 13:20:40

I see that my current pet hate, uni, or yewni,as it's pronounced, has made a late entry.
And I'll give you 'pop', be it in the oven or going to the shops,etc.
I'm agreeing with all the others too.
Thought of another "moi", unless you really want us to talk in French.

popsis71 Tue 11-Feb-20 13:18:27

Ignore the line thro' -- technical incompetence !

Callistemon Tue 11-Feb-20 13:15:36

shortened to 'the lav' Esspee!

Actually, I think Naty is Canadian so North Americans perhaps use bathroom as a pleasant euphemism.

Lucca Tue 11-Feb-20 13:14:35

Yet another vote for the sugary ones like “hubby” “hun” plus “lovely lady” .Then there is “literally”. As in “I literally died “. Er...no you didn’t.
Earlier someone criticised “bairns”. Surely that is just regional?

sodapop Tue 11-Feb-20 13:11:01

Yes Doodledog it's a euphemism used when a pet dies. I think there is a poem which goes with it.
We are very reluctant to use the direct words like die or death, there are so many expressions used to avoid actually saying it. I always want to smile ( inappropriate I know) when someone says they have 'lost' a relative, very careless.

popsis71 Tue 11-Feb-20 13:10:11

The recent strong winds have DECIMATED the trees in our woodland. So ONE TENTH of them have been blown down then ?
I also bristle when people preface giving an opinion with "I'm sorry but" -- why apologise for one's point of view ? or should that be POV - oops!

Esspee Tue 11-Feb-20 13:10:07

@Naty
You do realise that the correct term is to go to the Lavatory. I imagine that would really “gross you out”.
If you need confirmation of this a quick trip to Buckingham Palace should suffice.

spyder08 Tue 11-Feb-20 13:07:25

Oh my goodness....where to start...some mentioned already but here goes.....

You guys,
Fur baby/babies
Can I get?
Hun
And for some reason.....partner! Oh that really grates with me.
Partner in what..,crime?

Marilla Tue 11-Feb-20 12:58:19

Staycation and Uni.
Can’t abide the phrase, going to uni.

crazyH Tue 11-Feb-20 12:55:40

They've got the ""Lurgy" - can someone please tell me what Lurgy stands for?

Doodledog Tue 11-Feb-20 12:54:11

Does 'going over the rainbow bridge' mean to die? I haven't heard that one before. It sounds like it should be on toddler's TV show, though.

Am I the only one to hate 'uni'? I want to scream when I hear it.

I also loathe hearing women described as 'girls'. It is so patronising. 'The girls in the office', or 'a girl at work' is demeaning, and I don't think you'd hear 'boys' used in the same way. It's as though women never achieve adult status.

Another one is 'less' instead of 'fewer', as in 'six items or less'. Countable nouns should always take 'fewer'.

I laugh at myself for getting so irritated about things like this, as I absolutely recognise that they are unimportant, but I now feel the need to go and lie down in a darkened room grin.

AngieA463 Tue 11-Feb-20 12:54:07

"Glitz and glamour" ugh

Madbird37 Tue 11-Feb-20 12:54:01

Should have added when I went to pick up medication

Madbird37 Tue 11-Feb-20 12:52:40

I also hate the abbreviations used on gransnet but mainly because it takes me ages to work out what it means

more or less (it is or it isn't)

having a hand put in front of me asked to highfive

leaving prescription in at the chemist and being asked 'did you leave it in earlier' last time I said 'no I didn't leave it in earlier, I just thought I would see if you had it'.

widgeon3 Tue 11-Feb-20 12:47:28

Changing the topic slightly..... people in advertising who make value judgments on my behalf in an attempt to sell me 'stuff'

only £500....
Just the price of a cup of ( shop)coffee a day
The show is absolutely hilarious.
Why do I sit there stony faced then or, perhaps, wincing at the expressions used? F**** used as an adjective does not often make anything more significant or funnier.

Why do we not get a warning that the programme/film includes no sex, violence or swearing? We might then get the meaningful and humorous situations we used to see in the past. I suspect they took a lot more work and inventive genius to produce

Nanny27 Tue 11-Feb-20 12:37:30

Furbaby and going over the rainbow bridge. I recently heard someone on TV telling their dog to "go potty".! Really?

rockgran Tue 11-Feb-20 12:28:33

I'm afraid to start as the list would be endless. confused

Aepgirl Tue 11-Feb-20 12:27:08

I hate being referred to as a ‘guy’, and when out with a group of ladies ‘you guys’.
I asked a waiter a while ago to refer to us as ‘ladies’ - he looked astonished (I won’t say he was ‘gobsmacked’)

Dogsjj Tue 11-Feb-20 12:22:54

Why do people use the word looking instead of hoping. E.G. I'm looking to buying that car - ugh!

Shortlegs Tue 11-Feb-20 12:22:18

Ironically the acronym 'AIBU' gets to me.

Lovemybed Tue 11-Feb-20 12:03:18

Agree with so many of these!
The one I find really irritating is 'absolutely' as an answer/response. Find even politicians and radio 4 presenters can't seem to get through more than one sentence without using it.

Calendargirl Tue 11-Feb-20 11:58:50

Shop assistants or bank clerks who say “Are you all right there?” instead of “Can I help you?”

‘Affect’ used instead of ‘Effect’.

cupcake1 Tue 11-Feb-20 11:55:56

You’s - drives me insane!!!
Get a grip
Hun
Babe
Laters
See/speak later- when there’s no intention that will happen

lovebeigecardigans1955 Tue 11-Feb-20 11:53:03

"Hey" instead of hello or good morning.

May I ask what has happened to the comma? Many journalists write along the lines of, "The colours of the rainbow are red and orange and yellow and green and blue and indigo and violet" instead of using a comma in between. It makes it so clunky - if I'd done this at school my work would have had the teacher's red ink all over it.

gillyknits Tue 11-Feb-20 11:52:31

We were watching “Endeavour” on Sunday and we’re absolutely amazed to hear one of the characters , being questioned by the police, reply ”is all”. Instead if “that’s all.”
I’m sure this expression wasn’t around in those days!